i did not read the whole thread but from some of the posting done by sanook, he seems to be on the right track. Malaysian mentality is still very low when it comes to the topic sex. We were not given enough exposure about sex and what it is about. We were always taught by our parents, educators and peers that sex is "dirty". I must say, I totally disagree with such old school method. We need to educate people about sex and the importance of it. We should not be shy about sex. Everybody does it and everybody enjoys it. Why should it be a taboo subject?

This is especially true when it comes to girls who doesn't have enough knowledge about sex. They only think sex is about a stick poking a hole. And that's dirty. That's so naive and clueless. There is nothing wrong for girls to admit that they enjoy sex and crave for it.

On the subject on whether sex should be done after or before sex, that is up to personal preference. It should not be a rules in laws or religion. After all, if we were to have sex, we do get consent from the other party. Not like we are forcing one to do it. That's called rape.

For those who think that they should only have sex after marriage. Think about this. What if you found out that you and your partner is sexually incompatible? (What's the meaning of sexually incompatible? Go google yourself.) Then how? Divorce? Marry another person (for muslim).

Why do girls always blame men wanting to have sex? It's the natural design of men. The male species have the capability to be sexually one to many. Whereas the female species have the capability to be sexually one to one. That's why female are less sexually driven species compared to men.

I can really go on and on but I'll stop here for now.

This post has been edited by abubin: Dec 13 2006, 03:52 PM