hmmph.. girl the only way and also best way in my opinion is for them to talk .. find a nice cosy spot at home ( since they are living together ) set the mood .. hehe .. and talk .. got to first agree to put pride aside .

The girl , ur fren gotta be softer to the guy, gotta think of the right words to say to him

Tell him how she felt during the intercourse, wut she thinks causes the pain. Let him know which position or style hurts her. maybe its the position that they used dat causes the pain.

She should talk to him , let him know how to pleasure her. how to reduce her pain. I believe if the guy loves her 'enough' , he is willing to compromise and try . he will try his best to be gentle and would be more than happy to pleased the girl! Let him know during the intercourse wut to do to make her feel good.

If he did it then praise him

There's always a way out, it just depend if they wan to or not.

I hope they will be able to overcome it

This post has been edited by MysticJewels: Dec 7 2006, 08:56 PM

OR maybe she might have some infection or what..should go check up .. its not to say the guy is not clean. its jz sometimes this tend to happen as its the first few times ... dat might be one of the reason why its hurting so much...