Wow.... didnt know the word "Sex" could trigger argument or dog fight, thoughts there are only pleasure in it. Relax, calm down, we are having fun here. dont get all personal. I voted YES. 1st, sex is a form of communication, physical. On a couple occassion, it is about 2 lover communicating their love to each other. It creates a special place for 2 lover and will bring their closeliness for each other to a higher level. Bear in mind, guys are more sexual orientated as their hormon make them so. To male, sex is a needs in their basic system. To female, sex is for reproduction. For both side to enjoy it, the male would have to win over the female heart and make her the desire to want sex for mere pleasure and not reproduction. Well of course, no doubt in this century, there are minority group of female that has more desire for sex + group of male that has less desire for sex.

For TS, I truely feel that your friend is not ready to spend the rest of her life with this guy. It is better to put off the wedding and reconsider the relationship. The guy might be forcing himself on her and that make her feel like crap and that is not sex, that is raped. The way the guy reacted toward to her refusion displayed an inward stress. This will build up and eventually he will burst out. It is just a matter of time your friend becoming the next victim to abusive husband.

This post has been edited by Gametaipan: Dec 8 2006, 01:49 AM