Sex IS important. But it doesn't have to be the number 1 thing in the relationship. This kind of situation come up, not so simple as saying "the guy's a jackass".

Come on la. Most guys, if just in that situation where you feel you are rejected, that's a painful letdown too. I bet the guy's pride was just hurt.

The problem is probably communication more than anything. If the guy is a jackass or the girl is a b****, then why their relationship so far along already? The girl has to make her feelings clear, or at least try to. Why is she not enjoying the sex? Is it a medical reason? Psychological? Only because want to wait until after marriage? Just saying "I don't feel comfortable, and that's that" is not a good thing either. If she still likes the guy she needs to let him know through OTHER WAYS than sex. From a guy's point of view, sometimes we just need 'relationship things' to be discussed very clearly rather than letting us jump to our own conclusions.

Of course, the guy shouldn't just insist only lar. If he thinks sex is the only way to prove their relationship that's bad too. But 2 of them need to try to work it out someway. A girl cannot just keep repeating "I don't want sex" without further explanation. This kind of problem will not magically go away if she ends up with some other man who is willing to wait until after marriage etc. A guy also cannot simply respond to this kind of remark with the silent treatment.

Haiz it always amazes me...wonder if sex or money is harder for 2 ppl in a relationship to discuss.