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Garysydney
post Aug 19 2020, 01:37 PM

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QUOTE(kagenn @ Aug 19 2020, 11:55 AM)
The wife is already making me take walks around the neighbourhood though I still think it's a bit too chilly. Last weekend we went to Flemington station to buy some dim sum - which was pretty good. Then a few days ago news about some flemington market worker being hit with Covid surfaced - those who were at Flemington on the 8th should do the test & got myself slightly worried now:

"A case of COVID-19 has been confirmed in a person who worked at the market while infectious on Sunday, 9 August."
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Very unlikely you will get it. Got to be very unlucky to get it as the number of cases in Sydney is so low.

I go down to Chinatown once a week on the weekend to do a bit of shopping (groceries) - my wife makes sure i have got masks on both of us. I find it so troublesome to wear the masks but my wife will not have it any other way. Masks or no go!!

The weather looks like it is warming up. I only wear one layer at home now. My place is facing north so we have been getting a lot of sun which is beautiful. At night without heater, my lounge is a warm 22.2deg which is just nice. My place gets warmed up by the sun so when we have a cloudy day, my place gets a lot colder. I am really looking forward to spring now. I have been at home so much in the last few months and lately, i have been buying a lot of food that i usually do not buy before (unhealthy food with a lot of fat content) - i think my mind is behaving a bit irrational now as i am eating food that i have never eaten for more than 10 years now!! Just need a bit of pandemic and we do strange things now. shakehead.gif

In the last few month, i have hardly eaten out because my wife is petrified about eating out - good thing about that is my bank account has a lot more savings left after each pay rclxms.gif

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post Aug 19 2020, 04:15 PM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 19 2020, 03:03 PM)
how many of you got affected by the pandemic? in terms of job and money? how do you cope it?

I am unable to move back to Melbourne. Although my main job is not full time there, my main source of income still from KL.
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I think most of the jobs lost in Aust are in retail, tourism and aviation. Most of those i know have managed to keep their jobs though some have to take a pay cut.

I have still got my job and got a 2.1% pay rise in July because it is built into an enterprise agreement which my organisation have found hard to rescind as the agreement has been agreed to 3 years ago. I am hoping to get a golden handshake so they will let me go as I am ready to retire now. I just have to pray hard I get lucky.
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post Aug 19 2020, 05:16 PM

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QUOTE(kagenn @ Aug 19 2020, 04:00 PM)
We would like to go to Chinatown again to have some nice food but probably going to avoid slightly more crowded places for now till this blows over. I happily avoid overly crowded places/eateries thanks to the pick pockets back in Msia which I encountered a fair number of times during my college days.
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My wife and I would eat about 3 or 4 times in Chinatown on the weekend before Covid. Now we avoid eating out altogether. My wife is also wary of takeaway food so she has been cooking most times. We buy quite a lot of seafood at the fish market every 3 weeks but my wife only eats fish while I like everything. She is afraid of allergies from seafood which is why she only eats fish. She cooks a lot of soup which is good for winter.

Next few days will be very windy and a little cold so we may need to stay indoors for a while.

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post Aug 20 2020, 04:29 AM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 19 2020, 09:12 PM)
I have a cousin who depend on project for living. Since March until now no income at all because no clients to visit. He tried odd jobs, like fiverrs and etc. can't cope the high living.
It is becoming more stressful because being in mid 30s, he emergency funds are depleting, with repayment for mortgage and car, he is basically left with a few more months.

another friend of mine, manage to go on flight and come back to KL recently. Since living here is cheaper. Lost his job in Perth. But found a job in KL, at least for the next 1 year he doesn't need to worry much.

this pandemic gives me a very clear mind many things are very fagile.  sweat.gif
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This pandemic is affecting a lot of younger people financially (those in their 20s and 30s) as their career is just beginning. Those who have loans (cars and mortgages) that they find hard to service are really doing it tough as the economy is not going to just turn around soon (we are looking at a minimum 3-5 years before recovery starts).

There has been a sharp increase in people requiring counseling services in Aust for anxiety/depression since the pandemic began. Sad times indeed. icon_question.gif

Even the Aussies who are usually very independent are turning to their families for financial help - this is unheard of as the Aussies pride themselves with being the most independent in the world. A lot are moving back with their families (to save on rent) and some have resorted to borrow money from parents/siblings. This shows the severity of the current crisis and it is affecting everyone bangwall.gif

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post Aug 20 2020, 05:12 PM

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QUOTE(limeuu @ Aug 20 2020, 02:47 PM)
i thought you have a PR,so you can go back to Oz, just need to pay for the quarantine, and probably cannot leave after....

or maybe it's safer in Msia at the moment....

snow expected this weekend guys.....lol
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You can leave Aust if you have spent more time overseas in the past few years than in Aust. If you can prove that, you will have no problems getting an exit visa. Alternatively, if you can show that you are relocating overseas permanently, then that should also be ok for an exit visa. This granting of an exit visa is causing a lot of publicity as there are a lot of pommies with dual citizenship wanting to go back to UK but can't.

We are getting a lot of cold westerlies blowing strongly across Southern NSW and the wind is quite cold. Luckily we are still getting a lot of sunshine which is a real blessing for me as this warms up my place throughout the day. I hate it when we get overcast days in winter as it can get very cold and i have no choice but to turn the heater on.

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post Aug 21 2020, 05:28 AM

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COVID will change people's way of life (whether you are young or old). Younger people will become much more frugal and thriftier (i.e. lead a more simpler life) while oldies will have to learn to stay at home more (whether you are a rich or poor retiree).

People have to trim their expectations and probably learn to live like how we used to 50 years ago. We suddenly realise that we cannot control our lives like how we used to think we can - we discover our lives are really fragile and we have to blend in with how the universe wants us to.

I have been thinking a lot about life in the last 5 months and now realise that i will not be able to do many things that i used to take for granted for a long while (maybe forever).

Just a little sombre thought i would like to share with you on a Friday late winter (still quite cold though!) morning - i will probably look back to what i have just written 10-15 years from now and realise how silly i have been (being a lot more wiser when we get older).

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post Aug 21 2020, 10:56 AM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 21 2020, 10:40 AM)
import license is hard to obtain in Aussie compared with Malaysia.

For example, when i ordered a pallet of goods from Taiwan, I need to register yeah.
The lineancy for documentation in Malaysia is easier than Aussie which make a better business climate for starters.

In Aussie you need to declare up to the underwear, meaning u have to submit almost everything including their recipes, which many manufacturers are reluctant to produce.
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In Aust, everything is highly regulated by authorities and this makes it very hard for businesses to survive. There is too much red tape which is why you see a lot of manufacturing businesses head overseas (labour costs are way too high). Look at the small restaurants having to pay A$20/hr for waitresses - it is just not viable to take the risk of starting a new venture and then having to pay such high labour costs. Look at Din Tai Fung restaurant yesterday underpaying their staff - they were fined a total of A$600k? for underpayment of staff wages. If the trend continues, diners will have to foot the high wages and restaurant dishes prices will increase. Nowadays you can see a lot of restaurants closing down in SYdney due to the pandemic and with such high unemployment rates in Aust, you still see unions insisting on pay rises for their employees!! The unions must be out of their mind!! Instead of lowering wages to stimulate demand, unions are still making demands for pay rises! You will see a lot more businesses collapse over the next 12-24 mths.

Luckily this lucky country produces a lot of iron ore and coal but this natural resources may run out one day - in that event the lucky country's luck may just run out.
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post Aug 22 2020, 06:12 AM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 21 2020, 08:28 PM)
my parent's F&B business in KL had salary cut for staffs after coming into a meeting and all the staff agreed to do so. Therefore few chains managed to survive through this pandemic. It is lucky enough that most of them do not have a lot of commitment, or i can say no high commitment, for example cheaper room rents, food and etc. What i am trying to say is, imagine the commitments are high, the staffs will suffer and possible they will end up complaining to Labor office, then union will form. lol
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People with a lot of commitment will struggle in the next few years - they better pray hard that their income source is not disrupted. Just taking me for example, my income source has not changed (except my investments returns have dropped a lot but i do not intend to draw on those returns until after i retire) after the pandemic started - my wife however has seen her rental income drop substantially as one of her condos in Mont Kiara cannot get expat tenants (that condo used to get rn5k/mth). Her 2 condos are fully paid (thank goodness!) but it is still painful not to get any income from an investment asset. Lucky the other smaller condo still has a tenant even though we have to drop the rental as well for that unit to keep the tenant. Luckily my wife has still got some super in Aust and is drawing a pension from that. She keeps telling me that she is poor now and i have to give her more pocket money sweat.gif

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post Aug 22 2020, 06:26 PM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 22 2020, 04:08 PM)
at least you know how to judge situation and change spending behavior.

i have many friends who does not, almost 40 yo still spending like crazy before the pandemic.
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Over the last few months, my expenses has been so low that I have never in my life been so thrifty. I have only recently (in the last couple of weeks) been increasing my expenses because I see no point in having no enjoyment in life just because I feel so insecure. I guess I am just scared that I will run out money when I get old. However when I look at my retirement funds, I am better than a lot of people after having worked for more than 30 years now. I looked at myself recently and realise that I can probably still survive quite well with 70% of what I have - I only then realised that I lack contentment and am too fixated with having an 'ideal' figure in order to live. This ideal figure will be unachievable because investment returns are very low nowadays and will remain low for a long time due to the pandemic. Retirees in Australia nowadays are all quite worried because investment returns will be low for a long while and many may well run out of money before they conked off.

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post Aug 23 2020, 06:10 AM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 22 2020, 09:12 PM)
Insercure is not a bad thing, as long as you can notice it. I would pity some doesn't realize it. For example my single uncle reaches 50, he did not realize that his age matter in his job. VSS may happen at anytime and he wasn't prepare for it. even if it is not VSS, health matters can hinder his plan. because he always thought at the 5 years before actual retirement, he will focus on saving 100%. Saving is not 5 year thing, is should be displine and practiced life long..
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This pandemic will cause a long term generational change in people's attitude as they will not take things for granted as much as they used to because job security is now almost non-existential anymore. It doesn't matter who you are - you can be disposed off anytime nowadays after the pandemic. Most companies are reporting much lower sales (and thus profit will be hammered) and a lot of them are cutting their staff quite drastically (even if companies don't cut now, they most likely will in the next 12 months).

People's attitude towards saving money will definitely change after this pandemic - people who are going through this pandemic now (esp those who are doing it tough) will become greater savers (and less willing to spend on non-essentials). The effects are a permanent long term change in behavioural change in human spending habits. Sad to see how the pandemic is destroying lives and dreams but maybe they may be some positives in that people become more responsible humans (by saving more) and be more grateful for things they have.

People on long-term welfare will probably be least affected (in Aust) as their source of income is greatly guaranteed by the govt. I see most of my friends who are on full pension totally unaffected as the govt will never reduce their pension so their behaviour will not change (govt pension is indexed to CPI so they do not worry much). People who worry more are the self-funded retirees in that their investment returns are shrinking so they need to trim back on their lifestyle!

One bright note for us in Aust now is winter is slowly fading away now and the beautiful sunshine we are getting daily (in Sydney) is the best thing for me as my place is wonderfully warm every night due to the sunshine shining through my balcony. I am now really looking forward to spring and just hope it will be a mild summer this year.
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post Aug 26 2020, 05:37 AM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 25 2020, 08:52 PM)
My family group chat (some relatives who migrated overseas long ago) had people critisizing the peanut pay of RM 800 or RM 1000 from government for the covid 19 help. Which is only 300 sdg or 200 usd, or 150 pounds whatsover, they fail to realized that even so these are helps from government which is a big deal for many people in Malaysia. Although I do not comment much in that chat, I do however thinks that they may have had heavily influenced by the system, spoilt, and feeling entitled. Also, having not realizing what is right or wrong is worrisome, I do not hope that this will be happen to my children's midnset when they grow up. Therefore I told my wife, we may be keeping them back in Malaysia to attend normal schools and learn from there before migrate back to Aussie when they need to attend college. LOL!
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This is exactly the mindset that a lot of Aussies have (reliance on welfare) - however, the whole system (in Aust) is based on a welfare/socialist mentality.

Eventhough we have a Liberal govt in power, the policies are quite leftist (socialist). If you try to swing to more capitalist policies, you will lose power/election in Aust. Migrant Msians are brought up in a more capitalist system (not much welfare for Msian Chinese so basically we need to rely on family support due to the bumi policy where majority of the welfare pie is used to feed the 'prince of earth' race). I must say that all the Msians that i know living in Sydney all tend to have a more right-wing views (due to the way we were brought up) whereby we try not to rely on the welfare system but ABCs (Aust-born Chinese) which is our next generation thinks very differently (they have more socialist views which is exactly how Aussies think).

With this pandemic, Australia has been very lucky to avoid high infection rates but whether they can continue to be so lucky in future years will be anyone's guess. I am leaving most of my investment/retirement savings in Aust (even though i will probably be living in KL) so i definitely have a vested interest in hoping that Australia continues to proper.

I love talking about the weather so i will conclude this post with another rant about winter weather tongue.gif - The last few days were pretty cold esp in the mornings but we are getting beautiful sunny days for at least the last 2 weeks so i am not complaining much about this late-winter weather. This morning i woke up and it is 7 deg but the weather seems to be warming up a little more now in the afternoons (due to sunny days) and it is looking a lot more warmer this weekend rclxm9.gif

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post Aug 26 2020, 11:16 AM

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QUOTE(merchant9 @ Aug 26 2020, 09:44 AM)
Garysydney & Red_rustyjelly,

Just like to seek both your opinion about migration since you are both in Australia and your sharing here is very genuine, reflecting the real world scenarios and issues - indeed Malaysia welfare is one-sided and thus many Malaysian look for opportunity elsewhere.

Both my husband and I will be celebrating 40 years this year. We are currently engaged with a migration agency to process our application to migrate to Australia. We have 3 children in primary schools and we hope that by going there, they would enjoy unbiased opportunities, better schools, bigger currency, etc.

We are applying with Visa 190/491. My husband is a IT consultant, while I am a SJKC teacher. We worry about job opportunities, especially during the pandemic. What is considered a good salary to sustain a family our size in different cities in Australia?

What are some of the priorities for families like us going over? Finding job? Finding a place to stay? Husband go first? Family go together? This is all very new to us so we are seeking advise from experienced migrants, so can you give some opinion?

Thank you.
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I am probably not an appropriate person to be answering your question as i have only worked my whole life in Aust (came over in Jan 1981) as a Uni student and never went back to work (went back to KL for about 7-8 mths just to apply for my PR as in those days, we must leave the country first before you can apply for a PR) in KL. I have been working now in Sydney since Jan 1984 after i graduated (in those days nobody checked whether you were a PR when they offered you a job as there were not many illegals and getting a suitable tertiary-educated applicant was not easy).

Do you have any relatives or friends in Aust? It is probably a lot easier if you do because life as a new migrant in Aust is not easy. Have you decided where you may want to settle down in Aust (rural or city)? Housing in Sydney is quite expensive as even a small 1-bedroom unit (closer to the city) will be north of A$600k. With the 3 kids you have, you may need at least a 3 bedder - i don't know how much money you have budgeted to spend (on housing) so you may need to live further away from the city if you want cheaper houses. I have no kids so for me i don't have a big place as there are only 2 of us.

You probably need to consider employment as well - i would say unless your skills are very much in demand in Aust, you may find it hard to get employment in Aust esp now with the pandemic. Since your hubby is an IT consultant, he must be paid reasonably well so may find it difficult to get a high-paying job with the present economic climate (a lot of companies are trimming their workforce nowadays).

I will probably conclude with some comments on the Sydney weather (i am obsessed with the weather!!) - currently the sun is shining brightly and it is about 19deg outside. Beautiful sunny day today!!
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post Aug 26 2020, 12:20 PM

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QUOTE(merchant9 @ Aug 26 2020, 11:30 AM)
Thank you, just wanted to get the rough idea.

Yes, we do have family in Brisbane/Goldcoast and majority of friends in Melbourne. We have not consider the housing because we dont know which regional cities we will be in. I think we would be fine in either Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne but these are probably not going to be our starting points. My migration agency have talked to us about Adelaide and Canberra, so there could be where we start.

We attended a seminar on employment in Australia. The speaker told us there are more than 300 jobs paying AUD$200k per year, she made it sound like 300 is a lot of opportunity but with migrants from Malaysia/Singapore/India/others, we don't think 300 opportunities is a lot. We also not sure if AUD$200k is considered high paying. My SIL who lives in GoldCoast told us that we can live comfortably if we are earning gross AUD$120 - 150k, but we dont know how common is that. We are worried that new migrants will be bullied or paid less like AUD$80k will end up struggling.

I see you commenting about the weather quite a bit. We also prefer cooling weather but Malaysia is quite limited unless we head up to Genting or Cameron Highlands. Enjoy the sun and thank you for your feedback!
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In today's economic climate, you are unlikely to get A$200k in any job. In fact, if you were earning that, you are probably next in the firing line (esp if you are in the regional areas). Wages are now being slashed since the pandemic as the unemployment rate is shooting up. The unemployment rate is even higher in regional areas and wages are usually lower in smaller towns (unless you are a fly-in fly-out mining worker). You will be lucky to get any jobs north of A$120k nowadays as the pandemic is biting quite badly. With a family of 5, housing will be the most expensive costs for you - be it rental or a mortgage (regional towns housing will definitely be a lot cheaper compared to bigger cities esp Sydney and Melb). I quite like Brisbane nowadays as a retirement hub due to the weather (after nearly freezing to death this winter in Sydney smile.gif )

Each time i talk to people (on the phone in KL), they tell me how nice cold weather is and they wish that they were here in Sydney because KL is so hot! - i wish i was beck in KL because i really hate cold weather!!

Anyway, weather is starting to get nicer as we head towards spring rclxm9.gif


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post Aug 26 2020, 12:46 PM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 26 2020, 11:19 AM)
u miss Malaysia?
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I have been in Sydney for nearly 8 months now (since coming back on 11 Jan) and i have never stayed so long in Sydney for a long time (i have been going back to KL for my holidays every 5-6 months in the last few years) and it looks like my next trip back to KL may be my retirement relocation. I am now quite happy to be in Sydney because i am working from home and work is very easy as i only have to spend like 1 hour a day on work-related stuff in front of my laptop. I have a 15 min team conference every morning which is basically a chatting conference (no serious stuff) so i am not complaining as my wages are still being paid fortnightly. Only complaint (since working from home) is the winter weather which is giving me a bit of anxiety!! I started working from home on 22 March. I am now looking to spring weather and i can starting going out for my morning walks (currently walking in the afternoons as mornings are too cold to walk!) biggrin.gif
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post Aug 26 2020, 12:58 PM

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QUOTE(merchant9 @ Aug 26 2020, 12:37 PM)
Yes, we need to seek clarification with our agency if there are any limitations to our VISA whether it is 190/491. I know my husband is already looking for job alerts in Australia using SEEK. He is in IT industry related to security. According to him, always so positive attitude, cyber security work is in demand but we cannot assume the same for Australia because we dont know the job, economy, opportunities, companies, etc there.
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Cyber security is very much in demand now and wages are very good in Aust if your skills fit in their organisation. Only problem might be that they may say they need a little local experience which is what knocks most migrants off the short-listed candidates. Anyway, i hope you and your family best of luck in all your future endeavours (i got no kids and i have also needed to struggle so much in life - i don't know what i would do if i had 3 kids! biggrin.gif )

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post Aug 26 2020, 01:53 PM

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QUOTE(kagenn @ Aug 26 2020, 01:40 PM)
Starting to wonder if I will start feeling what feeling what you do about staying at home eventually since I'm always content being at home. I do my exercise at home and hobbies are home related too - so far I can't see myself feeling depressed being at home unless I'm trapped in it, being forced to do things I do not wish to. Why not just use the money on travelling to get yourself a heater to keep yourself warm and happy through out the winter if you're forced to remain here anyway?
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It is good that you like to stay home esp nowadays that will be the new norm. From memory, you like gaming, don't you? At my age, gaming is definitely not on my radar but i can meditate quite well so getting time to pass is not much of a problem.

I have a few heaters at home but even with oil heater, my wife doesn't like the dryness so we only use the heaters during showers. We use the electric blanket when we go to sleep at night but we turn it off after about 10 mins in bed as it gets too hot for comfort. We enjoy the natural heat from the sun the most as we trap the heat in during the day so at night, it gets very cosy (we get the winter sun throughout the day so it is a real blessing!). It is only overcast days that we really feel the cold and in those days, we turn the oil heater on. The dryness in the air (caused by heaters) causes my wife's skin allegies (mild though) to come up.

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post Aug 27 2020, 01:24 PM

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QUOTE(limeuu @ Aug 27 2020, 12:27 PM)
This is one aspect most difficult for middle aged migrants....at 40+, most are at middle level jobs in Malaysia, but have to downgrade to fresh graduate level starting a new life and career in another country. Sometimes even need to downgrade to below qualification. A relative who was a middle management banker eventually had to settle for a sales job selling Telco prepaid cards initially.
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Totally agree - new migrant aged 40+ may find it hard to find a similar position to what they had before migrating. Better ensure that you have sufficient funds to sustain yourselves for a while as costs of living can be a lot higher (in Aust) than what they are used to in Msia.
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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 27 2020, 09:04 PM)
There is also another thing about having my kids in Aussie, it is true they can be more socialized and open, but I don't want them to turn into Puberty period when they are teenage lol. because i saw 2 of my relatives teenage kids behave like western kids, thick cosmetic and body revealing photos in FB and insta, and probably too much too close to their male friends. I thought it could be me being too kolot(outdated mindset). I hated myself for thinking that way, but i want just want to protect them more.
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There is a big difference in attitudes between ABCs and Msian kids. Kids brought up in Aust will always be more independent and less respectful (if that is the correct word) but that is the way it is - you have some positives with some negatives. Sometimes the older generation has to 'allow' kids to develop their own natural personality though we must guide them. I don't have any kids so i don't have much authority on this subject tongue.gif

Just my 2c worth on a problem faced by having kids going in a direction that they may not agree with.

Closing my post with an update on Sydney weather again - spring weather seems to be finally knocking on the door rclxm9.gif . We are likely to get a lot of sunshine with afternoon temps around 20+ for the coming week.
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post Aug 28 2020, 11:17 AM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Aug 28 2020, 11:00 AM)
it is, but i need to correct a bit.

In Malaysia, my first child is now in a decent pre-school. I am paying about RM 900 per month for montessori, not to say the super expensive one. but is another different method that Kinder.

She is getting alot of positive teachings from her Malaysian teachers. And since she entered the school, she became more independent than her cousins, she is entering 6. My wife thought it is her atttitude that followed my DNA, but when we attended New Year party last year, i was surprised to see other kids behave the same. Though i can't say much because she is only early stage but definately better than before she enter about 1.5 year ago.

and i think Independent is very subjective word to use. Some kids who do not attend school until age 5 here in Malaysia were independent already, because of home teaching. I do also surveyed many schools recently with my SIL's children, standing outside of classrooms and see how kids react. It is surprisingly many kids are different from our time. Not like silent or shy when the teacher asking questions, i visited both government and chinese vernacular school.

It is always a growing perception Malaysian parents are being brainwashed that overseas syllabus are better or moving to study overseas are better.

As a parents and adult, we need to be rational to not think the 3rd world country education system is always bad. This mentality will affect alot of genuine teachers who have the true passion to teach. I once met up with a group of teacher from a school for some job related, you know the most unfair thing for them to hear? Kids who are graduated from their school that are being send to overseas, mentioning Malaysia education is low quality, how in the first place the kid can pass the prerequisite to enter good college overseas? Because the childrens are entitiled, doesn't mean that they should degrade this teaching, it is equivalent to degrading the teachers. I was like that, and I have changed.

And in the end what will happen to the passionate teachers? they will be always the one that get blamed for nothing by the rich and entitled.
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I have no kids so i have never thought much about children's education. In Aust, kids can either go to a public or private school and i have never really given it much thought (i am not rich myself so i would probably have to be content with public school if i had kids - i wasn't very smart at school when i was young so i probably will breed some mediocre kids as well smile.gif ). As i grow older, i now realise a lot of problems parents may encounter as i am able to 'comprehend' life a lot better as i age. I have always been an 'easy-go-lucky' type of person so never realise fully the responsibilities of parents. My wife does once in a while bring up the subject whether we should have kids - i told her we have made the right decision and our conversation on this subject stops there nod.gif
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Good morning guys

Aussie very strong today US73.56 (MYR3.065)

Have not been so strong for a long time!!

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