actually, i think a bit of travelling is a good thing for both of u, as long as it doesnt stress your budget, should be ok. money u can earn back, no problem, but the experience and moment u spent together is priceless. u work so hard, keep a lot of money, but u will never know what might hit u the next day. by the time if something really bad happens to u, i'm sure u'll be more concern of yourself and your loved ones rather than how much savings and money u managed to save in your account. most people dont realise this, because they never went through this. only when it hits u, u'll start to realise what is important and whats not important for u.