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TSLY115
post Oct 14 2015, 10:31 AM, updated 11y ago

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Things always never goes in way of people think or want...

Some decisions made will gain you some, but loss you more...

Any idea where can i find someone to talk over things...
taufoo
post Oct 14 2015, 10:35 AM

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The way the world works :

When you want something, it will not appear.
When you decide it's time to move on, opportunities come pouring down on you.

Is this about a boy/girl?
TSLY115
post Oct 14 2015, 10:38 AM

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Well... good guess there...

is about a girl, that i let go...and move on...
but after all... it may turn out... i was wrong...

but i can't be wrong for now...
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post Oct 14 2015, 10:41 AM

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Dotted sentences, girl problem.. Gimme a range of your age (18-21, 22-25, 26-30 etc)

Reason I ask is kinda important because I will reply you differently based on your age group.
TSLY115
post Oct 14 2015, 11:17 AM

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My age is 30...

can't seem to get things in way people want...

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post Oct 14 2015, 03:18 PM


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Sounds to me you are the people pleaser type of person.

I am sure you know you cannot please everyone, sometimes you just need to know what you want and fuck the rest.

Easier said than done though
kagamistar
post Oct 14 2015, 04:27 PM

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See at cupid corner
Ramai depress..
But they managed to handle it.
Ada yang jogging. Join groups.
Of course u can share
Nah she doesnt deserve u
Move fwd.be successful person.seriously
SUScrewl227
post Oct 14 2015, 05:07 PM

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QUOTE(LY115 @ Oct 14 2015, 10:31 AM)
Things always never goes in way of people think or want...

Some decisions made will gain you some, but loss you more...

Any idea where can i find someone to talk over things...
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Talian nur, akpk or go to any physc
yahiko
post Oct 14 2015, 10:42 PM

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u can call befriender.. they are all ready to listen to u..
http://www.befrienders.org.my/
SUSjolokia
post Oct 15 2015, 08:51 AM

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Move on & talk to new girls brows.gif
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post Oct 15 2015, 11:01 AM

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QUOTE(yahiko @ Oct 14 2015, 10:42 PM)
u can call befriender.. they are all ready to listen to u..
http://www.befrienders.org.my/
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listen only?
no sugestion move or on how to overcome it?
G-Rave
post Oct 15 2015, 05:21 PM

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Accept what has already happen, no point crying over spilled milk.
Just move on with your life, it took me 7 years to really move on from my first ex smile.gif First time is the hardest but not impossible, please have a strong heart =)
maraippo
post Oct 15 2015, 05:25 PM

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hi bro, can contact befrienders and share your feelings. the number is listed here
http://www.befrienders.org.my/contact.html
they can help listen to your problems...or go to their office
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post Oct 15 2015, 05:25 PM

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hi bro, can contact befrienders and share your feelings. the number is listed here
http://www.befrienders.org.my/contact.html
they can help listen to your problems...or go to their office
JimbeamofNRT
post Oct 15 2015, 05:28 PM

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Revenge is a dish best served cold. become your gf BFF and when the time is right, hit her when she least expect it.
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post Oct 15 2015, 08:38 PM

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QUOTE(JimbeamofNRT @ Oct 15 2015, 05:28 PM)
Revenge is a dish best served cold. become your gf BFF and when the time is right, hit her when she least expect it.
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this
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post Oct 15 2015, 09:26 PM

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QUOTE(LY115 @ Oct 14 2015, 10:31 AM)
Things always never goes in way of people think or want...

Some decisions made will gain you some, but loss you more...

Any idea where can i find someone to talk over things...
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This is the mindset issue. you generate too much negative energy, which kills you in the long run.

e.g. you look at the price after GST increasing... you focus on price increasing long enough, you depressed

if you are christian, just go to the thread at my signature to find uplifting messages

if you are not christian, i have a business coaching section which focus on mindset. Post 1 to 5 should give you good ground how to look at yourself
https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3699775
JimbeamofNRT
post Oct 16 2015, 09:39 AM

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QUOTE(mengfart @ Oct 15 2015, 08:38 PM)
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rather than weeping and see ex GF happy , might be as well take a revenge on her.
at least give her some lesson, in the future she will think twice if she wants to do the same shit to others.
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post Oct 16 2015, 03:26 PM

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Hit the gym.

Improve your fitness and perspective while exercising. At least you can focus on yourself to heal and be better.

best of luck TS.
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post Oct 16 2015, 09:26 PM

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QUOTE(LY115 @ Oct 14 2015, 10:31 AM)
Things always never goes in way of people think or want...

Some decisions made will gain you some, but loss you more...

Any idea where can i find someone to talk over things...
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Call the Befrienders: http://www.befrienders.org.my/about.html
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post Oct 17 2015, 01:25 PM

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QUOTE(LY115 @ Oct 14 2015, 10:31 AM)
Things always never goes in way of people think or want...

Some decisions made will gain you some, but loss you more...

Any idea where can i find someone to talk over things...
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Well you can call the befrienders.

http://www.befrienders.org.my/

Life it is not fair sometimes as we see. It won't happen the way we want it to happen sometimes. We have up and down sometimes. But don't focus all your energy into negative thoughts because then you will find your world getting smaller and small.

You should focus positive possibility that will happen in your life. There must be something good happened before in your life and there will be in future if you keep thinking positive. Not only that, make it happened.

It may take some time for you to have the strength again but start by thinking positive. Take one small baby step at the same time. Don't trap yourself in negative thoughts because it will only drag you down.

Life is simple. Everyday you can choose to wake up and have a happy and positive day ahead or you can choose to stay to remain in your current situation or negative day.

So why not choose the happy and positive way to go through your day smile.gif rclxm9.gif
JimbeamofNRT
post Oct 17 2015, 01:29 PM

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u r a an idiot if you choose to kill yourself. the world is so big , so much opportunities to have fun and make money as well to find your dreams.
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post Oct 18 2015, 01:17 PM

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befreinders?

 

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