QUOTE(SleeplessEyes @ Nov 21 2015, 12:55 PM)
An m3? You are obviously raising the bar too high for ts
jay881209 to reach to the point he would probably drop the idea altogether.
Not everyone can be like you, owning a Merc and a Bmw at the same time.
Come on, be accordance to Ts requirement. Rather than trying to discourage him to stop chasing for his dream car. I think after 13 pages of forumers bashing him, i feel he doesnt wanna go for it anymore. Well congratulations, you guys achieve your goal; to discourage him away from his BMW dream car.
At least JustForCheonging have a point. Why not go for other models.
Btw, i myself have a daughter already. So does that mean i can now start thinking of buying my dream bmw?
Sadly i cant afford your grandest suggestion. So do TS.
No offence, you think all of us are bashing TS. But, to me, I think we are giving TS good advices. If TS is earning 12k or 15k a month (without adding his wife's income), I doubt I would reply his post. But, unfortunately, he is not at this moment.
Some people think I am boasting myself, but I think I am talking about PRIORITIES. I had avoided to answer this thread - don't want others to think I am boasting myself. But, yummymommy's YOLO theory is funny. If "you only live once" is the justification, there are many other things should have higher priorities than owning a bmw. I can't imagine how one could suffer without owning a bmw.
My previous posts in this thread already mentioned, at TS's level of income, I think he should be looking at investing in himself in order to boost his income. Maybe getting some professional certifications. You probably did not notice my previous posts because there are 13 pages.
I envied bmw and mercedes since I was a little kid. But, to me, when I was earning 9000 ringgit a month, I was driving a proton wira. Why? Because I was PASSIONATE about getting rich and being financially independent. So, to me, I was PASSIONATE in my work and how to enhance myself. I was PASSIONATE to build a business. I was PASSIONATE in thinking how to make my wealth 4x or 5x more - that happened when I was 30's. When I managed to achieve my financial goals, I was PASSIONATE to have a family and kids. I was PASSIONATE to spend time with my parents. Today, I am at 50's, I am now PASSIONATE to make sure my kids will get into good schools and receive quality education.
I believe the main reason that lead me to be financially independent is: "when I was earning 9000 ringgit a month, I was thinking how to make it more" and not "owning a dream car". Am I still PASSIONATE about the cars I envied when I was little kid? Yes, I do, but not necessary mean I have to own them. When you can afford something, you will realize you can live without it.
If one needs to use "you only live once" as the justification, I think the following 101 things to-do for bucket lists could be more interesting than owning a bmw.
http://personalexcellence.co/blog/bucket-list/and, you will find out, owning a bmw or sport car is not listed as one of the 101 ideas.