very huge amount?

i also bought an item worth of RMB40, but the shipping fee is like double the price of the item (my mistake for overlooking this part). i tried refunding, but unable to refund and send the item back to the seller (citing wrong order number), in the end, I contacted the customer service and tell them i just want to get rid of this item from my storage (throw/donate/give away). they say, have to wait for 3 months before they throw/donate/give away.
now, only into 20+ days (including the 20 days of free storage).

look for their customer service online chat. they only have that, otherwise you gotta call them already.