Sep 9 2015, 12:42 AM
QUOTE(spiderjoy @ Sep 6 2015, 01:54 AM)
Hai guys,
Background
I been single my whole life. Had 2 girls I liked in my life (1 during school, and 1 during college) but when I tryed I got rejected cause they both were taken. Had a girl propose to me before took me to a date once and she never called back. That further sank my heart and made me feel lonely. Really wanted a girlfriend during college but my college only 1% population was girls, and class only got 2 girls, 2.5 years passed me being single wanting a girl.
Now after college I'm just at home... I tried Okcupid for 1 year+ but when it comes to meeting in person the girls just cabut. Same shit on Tinder swipe until my hand also pain edy. It's just pointless, nobody is serious. My workplace also just 5 employees all guys.
I just cannot tahan being like this lar anymore. A girl'ess life.
Every-time I ask my friends all they know is booking escorts/prostitutes or going to the GRO clubs and showering money on girls until they get sex.
I tried going to clubs but I realized it's completely useless cause the music is too damn loud to talk anything.
I even bought a car so I can go out at night and meet girls.
Question
I just want to go to a place where I can hit on normal girls. Like how guys in America go to bars and open up girls in bars. Somewhere where single girls looking for mates hang out.
I wanna approach girls, strike a convo, ask them out on dates, and get a sayang. Where can I do this?
I tried approaching girls on bus stops/LRT but they all scared of me and reluctant to talk (yes, I'm this desperate edy). Malaysia too much crime. I live in KL. Pls help me.
There is nothing wrong with approaching women on the street. The problem here is your mindset. If you are desperate for woman, she will feel it and will be scared by your approach. Women are everywhere. You can meet them through friends, pubs, actives (try Meetup.com), seminars (company seminars, NLP or investment seminars), social events, networking events, etc. If you do not meet any women that you like through these events, Im sure you will meet some like-minded friends who may introduce their friends to you. If you are not used to meeting new friends, it is time to change unless you want to limit your choices in life. Plus you are only 22. There are so many things to offer in the world. Background
I been single my whole life. Had 2 girls I liked in my life (1 during school, and 1 during college) but when I tryed I got rejected cause they both were taken. Had a girl propose to me before took me to a date once and she never called back. That further sank my heart and made me feel lonely. Really wanted a girlfriend during college but my college only 1% population was girls, and class only got 2 girls, 2.5 years passed me being single wanting a girl.
Now after college I'm just at home... I tried Okcupid for 1 year+ but when it comes to meeting in person the girls just cabut. Same shit on Tinder swipe until my hand also pain edy. It's just pointless, nobody is serious. My workplace also just 5 employees all guys.
I just cannot tahan being like this lar anymore. A girl'ess life.
Every-time I ask my friends all they know is booking escorts/prostitutes or going to the GRO clubs and showering money on girls until they get sex.
I tried going to clubs but I realized it's completely useless cause the music is too damn loud to talk anything.
I even bought a car so I can go out at night and meet girls.
Question
I just want to go to a place where I can hit on normal girls. Like how guys in America go to bars and open up girls in bars. Somewhere where single girls looking for mates hang out.
I wanna approach girls, strike a convo, ask them out on dates, and get a sayang. Where can I do this?
I tried approaching girls on bus stops/LRT but they all scared of me and reluctant to talk (yes, I'm this desperate edy). Malaysia too much crime. I live in KL. Pls help me.
Not only that, you have to work on your internal mindset. If you are always desperate for women, ask yourself why this is happening to you. When you ask yourself why are you desperate for women, answer like "companionship" may pop up. For example if companionship is the key reason of why you are needy for women, find some activities to compensate the feeling. Being needy for women is not healthy. Women dislike it and can feel it. Lastly, instead of keep thinking where to find women, you should spend more time on improving your own values. (e.g. hitting gym, learn more skills, learn public speaking, travel, etc). Just like Rolls Royce - once you have the values, women will come to you instead of another way round.
Hope this helps.
Thanks,
TeamDF
This post has been edited by TeamDF69: Sep 9 2015, 12:52 AM
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