Hai guys,

Background
I been single my whole life. Had 2 girls I liked in my life (1 during school, and 1 during college) but when I tryed I got rejected cause they both were taken. Had a girl propose to me before took me to a date once and she never called back. That further sank my heart and made me feel lonely. Really wanted a girlfriend during college but my college only 1% population was girls, and class only got 2 girls, 2.5 years passed me being single wanting a girl.

Now after college I'm just at home... I tried Okcupid for 1 year+ but when it comes to meeting in person the girls just cabut. Same shit on Tinder swipe until my hand also pain edy. It's just pointless, nobody is serious. My workplace also just 5 employees all guys.
I just cannot tahan being like this lar anymore. A girl'ess life.
Every-time I ask my friends all they know is booking escorts/prostitutes or going to the GRO clubs and showering money on girls until they get sex.
I tried going to clubs but I realized it's completely useless cause the music is too damn loud to talk anything.
I even bought a car so I can go out at night and meet girls.

Question
I just want to go to a place where I can hit on normal girls. Like how guys in America go to bars and open up girls in bars. Somewhere where single girls looking for mates hang out.
I wanna approach girls, strike a convo, ask them out on dates, and get a sayang. Where can I do this?

I tried approaching girls on bus stops/LRT but they all scared of me and reluctant to talk (yes, I'm this desperate edy). Malaysia too much crime. I live in KL. Pls help me.

This post has been edited by spiderjoy: Sep 6 2015, 01:55 AM

Personality. What do you have?

https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3684620

This post has been edited by Hamsom: Sep 6 2015, 02:00 AM

Joker personality. Not a quite cool guy. I'm active and funny. And lots lots of pickup lines. Lean abit towards nice guy personality.
9/10 looks + Fit. 0 pimples, even have my own dermatologist. Often get suggested to be gigolo or pornstar. Alot of guys think I'm player type cause this.

Problem is where to pickup girls!!!?

This post has been edited by spiderjoy: Sep 6 2015, 02:03 AM

How old are U?!

22.

Wah, ur situation very similar to mine. U can join me pickup around KL, I just started.

+1

LOL

Still young, no need be sad. Girl tend to be choosy those range of age.

Yes! We are in the exact same boat.

Which bring us back to the same question.... WHERE?!!

Just wanna do it like this bro here:

Fast answer? if you have a car (less than 5 years old)) and have some patience, be a UBER driver (find out how to do it at some Uber threads) and in a very very short time you will be able to meet all kinds of girlgirls from local to foreign ones and you will be farking more than driving.

true story. Uber Malaysia is HERE TO STAY

and make money too!!! while farking

wanna consider to change a job / job field ?

sinceb u are tired with it as well - changing it can increase ur chance

aktualli why not u kasi dia chance?
he`s FOTB

scared lioa

wht is fotb

why are you scared or phobia about?

fresh of the boat

scared kena hurt / leave again .ppl always call me sohai / weirdo magnet

more fresh if younger than me 2 years - 17 years old

what de hell for the bolded part.

dont put too much expectation you met the right one on your dates. It takes time.
just be yourself and love yourself.

hurt is when you overly attached' in life..everyone come and go; learn to get use to it the most hurt is the one you never want to see them depart...


This post has been edited by KVReninem: Sep 6 2015, 05:49 PM

young lil bro

defuk is normal girls...

I guess finding the right one requires time.

When you are desperate, you tend to make rash decisions. Even if you managed to find a girl / women (when you are desperate), she might not be the one that you like.

Always ask yourself this question. What are you looking for? Companionship? Or just a partner for sex etc?

Patience is virtue. You can try networking events or even music events (not trance but indie etc). The first step is always to expand your social circle.

Cheers!

Normals girls meaning NOT Thai/Vietnam GROs in those illegal clubs where u buy "flowers" for girls or the hookers in message centers.

I just wanna go out, and have a dating life. A life where i have stock of women. Like, if I wan date this weekend i have a list of insterested girls to ask. And if a girl rejects the date I got another one to ask out. And I can choose a gf to be exclusive to from all that options if I wan to.

I'm not looking for hookups, random fast sex or that stuff.

SIince you mentioned it, could you suggest an example of such events where hitting on girls is expected?