TL;DR..........

Thumb of rule is, buyer pay 1st then seller confirm received payment only send item.

In this case, Lehrry probably request for post 1st because he sked he might kena scammed.
Theoretically, thats what buyer wants ofcourse... buyer also sked kena scammed right?
So i cant say who is wrong (asking payment 1st or send item 1st)...

Best way is to do COD, or thru a proxy person (i could suggest via apis_lualua).
Buyer make payment to proxy (proxy hold money 1st) and seller ship item to buyer.
Once buyer confirm receive item then proxy send the money to seller.

Thats all my 2cent.

To be fair, anyone can also be scammer.
Doesnt mean he/she done few genuine transaction and confirm wont scam next time.


Even for someone like myself, sometimes i do request seller (new members) to send item 1st before i pay.
What do u think am i femes enough and wont scam?
Well iinm so far nobody ever send me item 1st b4 i pay...... and oh ya, other way around i wont send item 1st before get payment even the buyer is femes and done alot transaction.