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 Marrying soon. Need vasectomy recommendation.

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lot101
post Nov 24 2015, 03:33 PM

Apa got sing sing one......
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you seem mature......you should have at least one kid =) ..... its an experience, I know more than a few who have gone through the same thought process...guess what....some remorse is always felt....whatever your decision is...I respect that. good day.
lot101
post Nov 24 2015, 05:29 PM

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What has government got anything to do with the act of procreation?

This planet lacks parents who are mature enough to handle the upbringing of healthy, well-adjusted children.




lot101
post Nov 25 2015, 01:19 AM

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QUOTE(J1g54w @ Nov 24 2015, 10:12 PM)
bad government > bad social environment > bad people > bad government (cycle)

to break this cycle a conscious effort to change the system has to happen
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guess what, I am putting my boy in such an environment with some advice 'la' ..... I told him he had two choices.....be glum about it or breakout and thrive.....guess what the 12 year old chose ?

Dunno about you, I am of the thought that the greatest and the worst thing on this planet are humans. But I wont let a few rotten apples spoil my day.

Anyways we need more good peeps to break that cycle =) by not procreating the ALLEGEDLY BAD GOV wins, dude.
lot101
post Dec 4 2015, 03:03 PM

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QUOTE(J1g54w @ Nov 25 2015, 09:16 AM)
You have a point. That's not my only concern though. If I'm going to have a child I want to home-school him and spend most my time taking care of him. I wouldn't trust anyone else to take care of him, even my parents or relatives. Since I wasn't born with a silver spoon and I have to work, it's in the best interest not to have a child.
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I hope you have not snipped yet =D

You worry too much, people were having children through the worst of times throughout the history of humanity.

I have a son and I know more than a few couples intimately who have ummm 'furkids' (a rather demeaning word to actual children all over the world and those of us who were once and still are).

You have to talk to people who are in the 50s who are childless. Get more insights into it before actually committing and pls pls dun think one can replace a child (who talks back =D) with a PET.

Good luck!


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