I'm not seeking for advice for posting this. Just want to rant.

Earlier today, I received whatapps message from someone. He is my ex. He was drunk, messaged me said that he missed me, and that I have no idea how much he loved me. bla bla bla.... Finally he admit that I'm a good girl (When in relationship, he always complaint that I'm bad gf). And regretted for everything that happened. I have the feeling that he wants the relationship back.

Why is it people always only know to cherish things after they have lost them? Only realized that they needed us after we're gone. Seriously, I dont really have faith in love anymore. Always have bad impression towards guy that trying to be friend with me. Living in paranoid. I'm tired. It's not I'm regret for scarified too much in relationship. Just.. feel tired. But, at the same time, I'm happy with my single life now. No regret!

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Its human nature ... one will not miss what they never have.

Human nature. Just move on and enjoy your life.

enjoy your single life! no regrets! Cheers!

Its normal, but this dont apply to all but only limited vision people. Means they can only see what in front of them. This people usually don't deserve 2nd chance.

That not her fault. Is your mindset fault

this type of guy shoo him away nia...
those who cherish will miss you everyday

If you are paranoid with the aftermath, I feel for you and I am in your shoes once.
After months of disaster, I realized that when hanging out with buddies, I tend to remind myself to be close relationship but not attached.
It is not that I do not have faith in love anymore but do not want to easily fall in love and break each other heart again and again.
I would rather be a girl's close friend and then proceed to the next step if we are both into each other.
Found out that there is always someone that willing to sacrifice for you willingly and you can feel that sincerity.
Anyhow me have good single life, hope yours are great

It happens to the best of us.
Enjoy your single life. Cheers.

Ignore him

cheers to the weekend!

Guys.

Nope. that 3 years is nothing.

I get what you mean. And yeah have a good single life. But to me nothing much different when i was in relationship. The only different is less companion.

gambateh in ur coming life~

Good also after know that u break up with him.

Some time love are miserable.

when u dont have it, u feel wanna have it. When u have it, u feel single is better.

its your choice to remained single. but to what extent? this need soul searching.
if you feel tired, is ok to stop and rest. but then again, when you are recharged, its time to decide.

Lost faith in love? I'm in the same boat as well. Realized that love is not for me. So career is the only thing left in my life

Some guys are just weak, pathetic and want to 吃回头草.
If he treat u well, u weren't wanting to break up with him. Life's a continuing lesson.

Please be optimistic eventhough u had only ONE bad impression in this case. Some other guys have good self esteem, creative, learn how to respect women, leading etc. U'll find that guy very soon!

It is normal.

Both of you should not feel sad. Sometimes good things fall apart, so that better things can fall together.

He is drunk. That`s the point. A man who loves you won`t leave you.

TS, you want to go Bali with me? I'll make sure I treat you better than him

you find your true love one day .

me too.im tired

drunker spills truth.

after so long and he's still keeping this in the heart, maybe you shouldn't missed the opportunity of life

yeah. if u still do have feelings for him, please give him a second chance.

Not true actually. People cherish what they see has value.

If someone does not cherish you, that means they do not see the value in you. Not because it is "human nature".

yes its true.. u never know how much a person meant to you until you lose them..