yup.. onli in malaysia must convert in order to get married.. not in other countries. i had a chinese Christian gf once and the parents like me. But then we broke up because her daddy adviced us that it wasn't easy for her family to accept conversions because they are conservative Christians. we do remain good friends though.

conversion is very tough la.. must think of her family also. muslims kenot convert in malaysia, becos nnt kena tangkap polis pulak. i am a muslim, and i'm not narrow-minded and i don't really care of spreading religion.

all i wanna ask threadstarter is that if the roles were reversed, would have done the same thing?

religions' basic teachings are the same, to do good, be kind to others, and such. but it's different. n u must understand.