Hi all, I'm not fluent in bm.. id like to know if its ok for a girl/female to call her bf "sayang"? I know wives use the word "abang" but we're not married. Or maybe there's other malay terms to use.. affectionate ways to call him?

And what is the difference between "sangat" and "banyak"
saya rindu awak sangat OR saya rindu awak banyak?
which term is sweeter?

He also said that he wants me "manja" what does that mean specifically? any examples?

Thank you

Thank you uzer85 for answering. Much appreciated!

I was simply asking some questions & I don't know why some people want to make a problem of this. Is it wrong to be in a relationship with someone of different religion? -itekderp

Be prepared? for converting to islam?

Oh I was angry at u or your comment. I was referring to someone else.
He does treat me nice... really good. I actually find that malay guys are more caring & sensitive than Chinese.. but diff people have diff preferences.