newborn diaper, baby cloth, mittens

1.stroller - a cheapest at rm140-180 will do
2.baby seat@car seat - let your baby try it out before decide
3.baby bed - sarong with motor will be a better option most of the time
4.newborn diaper - don't waste money on this, buy S size
5.baby cloth - ask around your friends and relatives
6.mittens - is this North pole?
7.Baby towel - normal towel will do, more important is change it regularly and don't wash it with normal detergents.
8.Blanket - cotton towel will do the trick
9.Netting - get number 13 will do
10.Rubber matt - if using cotton diaper, yes this is needed.
11.TYT oil - can get few bottles, at least 1 big for house use, small bottle when you are going out.
12. milk bottle(stainless steel or glass ones, avoid plastic) - getting plastic with BPA free will do and do not buy the Avent, sometimes babies don't like it.
13 Mosquito net - repeating stuff
14 baby lotion, rash cream, baby oil - can get anywhere
15 maternity pads for ur wife - 1 bag will be enough, make sure give your wife "sang fa" soup to clear out all the dirty blood.
16 baby bath tub
17 socks and hoods
18 cotton diaper, for daytime usage(disposable ones R expensive, only for nite time)
22. Spare some emergency funds - spend rm1600 in GH for C-sec(if some complications) is better than waste >rm5000 in private hospital will keep your wallet full.

Welcome to parenthood bro 

Agree with talexeh can delay on stroller and car seat, wait after yoir baby delivered than only can look for it

Look for confinement lady

In most cases, the teat comes along with the bottle & it can't be used in any other bottles of different brand. Therefore when the teat doesn't suit your baby, you have to end up changing the entire bottle to another brand.

sterilizer for milk bottle ,teats etc

Congrats for you. Well I am on my first week parenthood LOL. So I might want to input some for you from my few day experience.

1) If breastfeed then is the best, should invest in a good pump and keep some container for storage.

2) If no breastmilk to produce then try to get some sample or buy just a small box of infant milk to test if is suitable for your baby.

That's all for now LOL