Maybe i am lucky to have my parents whom can afford to sponsor. But its not easy, having to use parents money for own marriage.
Gonna try to cover as us as possible. Worst come to worst if they insist traditional sit down chinese dinner and invite everyone then the 100k will be used for it. IF angpao can cover then no need use it.

Just an insurance.

Thats why i said i came from very traditional old generation Chinese family.

I am the last in the family, so once done. all done and settled. They can retired and nothing to worry.

for chinese its always about next generation.

Spot on. My parents saved up for all of us. Education, wedding and maybe their future grandchildren's education? lol

I am the youngest.

I really need opinion, especially those that had done a proposal by beach or fancy rooftop diner?

Maybe i should post in CC. here is all settled and about wedding

Wah piang eh, respect your parents, in my case, my elder brother and I have to work for months first, and even with that, we still need to borrow ptptn for education.... I think when grow old I don't want to get married laa, too troubling for mid-income ppl like me

i need to do n save all by myself..

sobz

it depends your partner's preference.

is she someone who prefer quiet environment or merry environment with tons of friends. It is not necessary to be expensive

I done mine on 1/1/2015 in bkt jalil park with using jogging training as excuse. She is a person who likes running and natural park.

Helium Balloon (30 peaces about RM180 if not mistaken)
36 roses (RM120) - friends is a florist
support crew - friends = free
photographers - friends = free
lunch after the proposal = RM200

it is memorable bcos it was the first place where we have our first run together.


All the best TS

This post has been edited by frequency: Jul 2 2015, 06:19 PM

please la,

But i know it can be done according to own's affordability,

1. Ignore what ppl will think.
2. It's ur wedding not theirs
3. Mutual understanding of current financial situation btwn you and ur fiance. Lets not use money as excuse of not having a family

This post has been edited by mugenz: Jul 3 2015, 01:41 AM

not bad..


This post has been edited by mugenz: Jul 3 2015, 01:41 AM

Fiance un...

In law x un...

Thanks for the input.

For me i am hopeless romantic kind of person but i do surprise her with some romantic events and stuff. Both of us would prefer a quiet environment.

But now i headache how to get someone to help take pictures or video of the moment. Flowers and decor hotel can help.

Another problem, i am bringing the wedding ring along to the trip and worried it might get lost. Takkan spend additional just to buy a presentable spare to bring there.

my hubby proposed to me on Phi Phi island beach.....with him down on bended knees, the angmoh crowds whistling and clapping hands...I can't say no...
something I can never ever forget in my life cos of the feeling at that time

hi sifus, going to propose to my gf soon. WTA what kind of speech did you all give..
like those you watch in the movie long ass speech... or something short and simple?
could you enlighten me for some ideas?

it would be on our holiday without any friends or family. just the two of us.
kinda concern that comes the day. words wont be coming out my mouth.