Yo!

Not sure right place to ask opinion, currently planning a proposal.

1. Rooftop proposal during dinner via vacation
2. Dinner by beachside with romantic setup via vacation

Above will cause me a bomb. Air tixs + accomodation + setup = 2K to 3K depending.

3. Ignore all the above, save the budget and do a simple high class dinner proposal in KL. Use the money for wedding rings or wedding preparation.

Ofcourse, budget matters la. IF doesnt matter I gonna propose in the moon.

bro, macam not so convincing woh. It could be once in a lifetime thingy... Abit the simple?

I know, sometimes simplest thing can be sufficient. Love matters blah blah, but.....

sure or not?

so that means you agreed that save up on the fancy things?

I have roughly 25k excluding rings and etc.

My parents rushing me to tie the knot ASAP. My excuse is i havent really saved up but they will sponsor me 100k ask me not to worry. My gf and i sort of talked about it and agreed to have a simple wedding. Btw, we are Buddhist and come from traditional chinese families. My idea is to have a nice place with buffet style, a stage, a band and everyone just makan and drink, chit chat.

Thinking to go away with traditional sit down chinese style dinner. Both of us really felt sayang to spend luxuriously on wedding where we can save up the balance and dp a property or something for our future. Ofcourse we still have out photoshoto, maybe 1 outdoor and 1 studio. No need travel to Japan or Korea just for photoshoot.



Actually my thread is just a beginning of my plan, the proposal.

Just want to get opinions on my ideas.

1. Beach proposal or a rooftop bar proposal via vacation.

or

Cincai do a fancy dinner in KL and save up.

This post has been edited by Halls1234: Jun 27 2015, 11:55 AM

thanks bro, yeaps.. really need to discipline on planning and spending. Spend those that I can afford and try not to care about other ppl's influence.

Gonna only invite close families from both side and buddies from both sides. Not even gonna invite colleagues/bosses.

Maybe i am lucky to have my parents whom can afford to sponsor. But its not easy, having to use parents money for own marriage.
Gonna try to cover as us as possible. Worst come to worst if they insist traditional sit down chinese dinner and invite everyone then the 100k will be used for it. IF angpao can cover then no need use it.

Just an insurance.

Thats why i said i came from very traditional old generation Chinese family.

I am the last in the family, so once done. all done and settled. They can retired and nothing to worry.

for chinese its always about next generation.

Spot on. My parents saved up for all of us. Education, wedding and maybe their future grandchildren's education? lol

I am the youngest.

I really need opinion, especially those that had done a proposal by beach or fancy rooftop diner?

Maybe i should post in CC. here is all settled and about wedding

Thanks for the input.

For me i am hopeless romantic kind of person but i do surprise her with some romantic events and stuff. Both of us would prefer a quiet environment.

But now i headache how to get someone to help take pictures or video of the moment. Flowers and decor hotel can help.

Another problem, i am bringing the wedding ring along to the trip and worried it might get lost. Takkan spend additional just to buy a presentable spare to bring there.