Cessasionism or Continualist, those are just terms that has no meaning. Sugar coated ideologies being exploit by selfish individuals for their own benefit in the pretense of serving God. With that said, that does not mean that I don't agree there are still good pastors left but eventually, they will stray when they see the finances flowing in.
I don't feel disgruntled after tithing, I just feel like the funds were being abused by the individual whom the people trust. My purpose of tithing was so that they could be advanced to expand God's Kingdom and not to make prosper the pastor and his family's welfare. I was delighted when the pastor reported that monies were being advanced to support small churches growth in rural areas like those in Africas etc. THAT is supposed to be the purpose.
What's funny is that the pastor in my previous church preached if the leader is prosperous then he can lead the followers to the same route. To my surprise, everyone just shouted Amen. What logic is that? For what I know, the pastor had bought a new 3 storey bungalow and changed multiple cars and also brought his entire family overseas on "missionary trips" and yet, I still see members driving an aged Mazda 3.
It may not be fair but take example of the City Harvest case, I do not know which school you subscribed to but I saw a clear cut breach of trust which is criminal in nature and YET, the church goers went on and trust the leader. They call it faith but I deemed that such obedience was because they fear, fearing that they may anger God if they stopped doing what the leaders told them.
My point is this, if someone feel "disgruntled" (in your words) when tithing, this is not because they are not in sync with the Holy Spirit.
The Holy Spirit does not compel you to do wrong things instead it warns you that something is not right so when an individual feel that they are tithing to the wrong church, then it is the Holy Spirit telling you something. One must not be advised to console it and deemed such discomfort as a sign of moving away from having faith in God.
One must always remember. We placed our faith in God and not in the pastor. They are not God.
That was my understanding as well and I find the church is in absolute contradiction. At one point they are preaching mercy and at the other, telling you things like this.
As far as I know, I didn't remember believing in Hitler or a socialist God.
Whatever it is, I stopped going to church for a few years now but my faith for God is still strong. In spite of my deliberate absenteeism, God has never left me and has been with me along.
Nowadays, I feel like people going to church is not to worship God but rather to social and "show off" under the veil of "fellowship". The fact that people gossip about each other immediately after the sermons within the church compound sickens me.
don't overlook cessasionism n continualism issues. take a look at your writings i put in bold. How do you know Holy spirit voice / advice / guidance ?
I give you case: I need to bribe to save a kid in the jungle. question: from Holy Spirit ? or from devil ?