This is extremely helpful although I am not getting married anytime soon in the next year or two. Probably in 4 years time when both myself and my girl have enough money in our finances.

Thanks so much for the informative guide/pointers @princessgalaria and also @manpower4x4 for adding on for the guys!
Many many wishes of congratulations to all who has commented in this thread!

This post has been edited by DreMAx: Apr 17 2015, 01:19 PM

Unfortunately that's really the case and need to factor in for GST as well
I am definitely looking at banquets like the one you mention but the Menana LYL that one la. Much nearer to home also actually and there are 2 hotels there. Hotels are just out of the league unless I have that much luxury to spare.

Anyhow, my parents are expecting me to food the bill on my own like a man

Hahaha. Daddy made it clear to me and my elder brother already. "You two will marry your future wife on your own and with your own capacity"

Then again, on the flip side also need to discuss with my girl and plan our way to that very moment.

Oh my... That's a very unpleasant tale from @princessgalaria. I am terribly sorry to hear about your predicament, but as what you have said, just move on with life. Hey wishing you and your husband a wonderful and blessed married life ahead!

I wouldn't mind, just the Juliet would mind

You and I have lots to think about man I feel you

Better to please yourself first before anyone else. It's selfish to do that but it's always better to be comfortable with our own circumstances before we deal with other people's circumstances. It's difficult to put into words, but this was what I was told a year ago. I was helping other so much that I neglect helping myself first.