Dont seek for love. Let it be... Be naturally.. I look back at my ex, all of them looks like a loser to me. Im happy that i met a guy that I love. Every person have their cons/pros. Depending on you. Can you take it? Mayb u are being too picky. I admit that my bf is not like those in the fairy tale story book. But at least we share the same interest. He got his bad part which i dont like and really hate it. After years, he changed. You see, guys and girls. They are all investment. The more you invest, the more return you get or worst you lose it all. Thats it. Simple as that.