If the breakup is fresh I assume that is normal to feel how you felt now. I felt that way when the one that I plan to spend my life with walked off, strung me on for another 2 years or more, farked, get knocked up, and marry the b@stard she swore will never fall at all. The lady that end me up at CC for some time. Call it fate or god seems cruel whatever but at first the feeling that I won't get over Miss First Love was there. Like she was the only one. As if she was the ONLY HOT PIECE OF ASS I EVER HAD, you can call it whatsoever. That is how I felt initially.

Eventually I found someone else who is much more of a waifu material. She may not be the prettier chick but her character wins out by far. Of course, I treat her as a lover although I do think of my ex sometimes, but at most times it was just to re look,learn and readjust my own actions for the new girl, since women have the same instincts although have difference personalities.

Experience is gold man.