could i atleast tell her that i love her before kiss her?different people has different play style, my style is i respect the girl i dated, if we are now bf and gf, then we can kiss and holding hand like other couple does

do you tell out loud that you're hungry before eating? lol. sometimes its better if you said nothing at all. let action dictate the situation. ofcoz some girls are old school but most girls love the thrill of things suddenly happening. if the girl likes you, she will agree to kiss you without u even mentioning a word. if a girl doesnt like you, u tink ur iloveyou words will change her decision? haha... play the game well bro...

I know a girl who kisses but says got no feeling also, because a kiss has no meaning nor value to her, used as a non-verbal message for the guy to step up his game.

If a kiss means something to you, and nothing to him, reject further kisses from him. No need to crack your brains about it.

He is taking the initiative. If you reciprocate, he will get the msg.
Confession of love isn't necessary, sometimes it is unspoken.

Yes, I tell the whole world Im hungry before I start eating, and it's really giving me more appetite and love towards the food Im going to eat.

then go confirm with him la by saying : u like me ma ?

FIRST OF ALL

What kiss he give you inside car?

Cheek kiss or french kiss

You could land yourself in the friendzone if you do that for long term.

French kiss.. but I avoided him after that coz I saw someone looking at us

if no feeling him, just tell him straight... let him know what u think about him...
if u got feel for him, just don't go too fast. not sure if he just want to "taste" of u..

bu the way , how long u know him ady?? 3rd date Kissing liao...

so 4th date u will go hotel with him?
he is not even ur bf yet but u let him hold n kiss u?
learn how to protect yourself.

I already knew him about 4 years (seldom meet) but just recently we meet up again... All these years, he tried to chat with me but I have been ignoring him coz of my studies. Just recently, he asked me out after I back from overseas

This post has been edited by mckyminnie: Feb 5 2015, 01:52 PM

4th date, he will be in ur bed.
..and he will still not confess to u yet.



ask him lar...wad he really feel or want.
mana tau he really treat u as fren aje? or sex buddy?
also u also need to learn to judge whether u can trust him or not...

Just take care of urself lah....... think before u speaks or act...

kiss liau need to confess?
next time ask him.. y he kiss u

LEL

Deep's got a point, this ain't high school no more. When your opponents have seen the same moves over and over again, it gets boring. Plus skipping these unnecessary steps allows you to speed through the whole woo-ing process, and get to the main point much faster - which is whether you two are compatible.

Pretty sure you've heard plenty "I chased for 2 years but we broke up after 3 months" stories, stop being the main character, be the next guy.

ive been into countless rships la bro.. more than 10.. i now how it works.. my final rship also started with me piaping her without any confession.. from there feelings develop and we became an item thru paham2 method.. we learn tru mistakes. but i still havent mastered the art of maintaining a rship past the 3yr duration

all this iloveyou uloveme confession very noob. iloveu uloveme shud come after the initial flirting stage, not at the start. haha..

Relationships are like gambling though. You get worse at it with experience.

Couldn't agree more. How much does one even know the other enough to love them just by a few dates or even a few short weeks? Chemistry yes, sparks yes, love - NO. Funny how the girls craves to be lied to, and the boys gladly grants their wishes.

The way I see it, TS is gonna get an invitation to a game of bedminton sooner than she thought. (just like your last relationship)

TS, prepare yourself. Ready your answer as to whether you wanna stand your ground or go for a friendly match. Please don't base your answer off whatever confession you plan to get out of him, it will only make his job easier. Slow down when you feel uncomfortable, it's a mutual thing. Sometimes guys make advances expecting a guard, and feels weird when the gates are open.

When a house has no alarm system, no fences, doors unlocked, the only logical thing for the burglar to assume is that it's not worth getting into. Should nature calls, he'll take a leak before leaving.

Do remember though, we enjoy poisoning the dog, prying the fences and hacking the alarm system. But nobody likes houses with a football field as their lawn.

This post has been edited by KingDamo: Feb 5 2015, 03:12 PM

its quite normal for a guy if u let them do that to you...

so TS u allowed him to do it to you right ?

are you fond of him ?

if not u better clear up the dust or it will be quite complicated later for u