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Advice Wanted Haven't confess but kiss me
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deepan84
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 Feb 5 2015, 10:18 AM
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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Feb 5 2015, 09:43 AM) wow...that guy got some "speed", kind of early for a kiss and hand holding don't u think?i mean atleast he should ask for yr "permission", i won't kiss and hold a girl's hand that i just dated...i respect all boys and girls, we all have our pride right? and guys..this is an example of a whiteknight foreveralone. if the situation is good, just take the action. girls will never reject if they feel its the right time. maybe after that at night she will think and regret...but usually never at the point of the moment.. better than asking permission like a DB and looking all noobie. normally i kiss the girls i got out with after 3 dates. if she rejects, den bagi ayat manis sikit. basically they are not scared of kissin but just scared of the impression the guy will think of her. if got alcohol involved, sometimes first date also can sapu like one of the tinder girls i was out with. asking permission is so high school dude. the only confession u need to do is when u wanna marry her. |
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deepan84
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Feb 5 2015, 10:28 AM
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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Feb 5 2015, 10:24 AM) could i atleast tell her that i love her before kiss her?different people has different play style, my style is i respect the girl i dated, if we are now bf and gf, then we can kiss and holding hand like other couple does do you tell out loud that you're hungry before eating? lol. sometimes its better if you said nothing at all. let action dictate the situation. ofcoz some girls are old school but most girls love the thrill of things suddenly happening. if the girl likes you, she will agree to kiss you without u even mentioning a word. if a girl doesnt like you, u tink ur iloveyou words will change her decision? haha... play the game well bro... |
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deepan84
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Feb 5 2015, 02:33 PM
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QUOTE(KingDamo @ Feb 5 2015, 02:27 PM) LEL  Deep's got a point, this ain't high school no more. When your opponents have seen the same moves over and over again, it gets boring. Plus skipping these unnecessary steps allows you to speed through the whole woo-ing process, and get to the main point much faster - which is whether you two are compatible. Pretty sure you've heard plenty "I chased for 2 years but we broke up after 3 months" stories, stop being the main character, be the next guy. ive been into countless rships la bro.. more than 10.. i now how it works.. my final rship also started with me piaping her without any confession.. from there feelings develop and we became an item thru paham2 method.. we learn tru mistakes. but i still havent mastered the art of maintaining a rship past the 3yr duration  all this iloveyou uloveme confession very noob. iloveu uloveme shud come after the initial flirting stage, not at the start. haha.. |
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deepan84
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Feb 5 2015, 04:53 PM
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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Feb 5 2015, 02:47 PM) Relationships are like gambling though. You get worse at it with experience.  not worse but with every failed rship, u become even more heartless... eventually u just wont have trust on anyone or the institution of rship anymore. |
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deepan84
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Feb 5 2015, 05:48 PM
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QUOTE(RUI @ Feb 5 2015, 05:37 PM) When the same shit hit you twice. You will say "Not again!" and probably moves on faster. It's not really heartless. You still do all the crazy stuff that gives you butterflies and fall in love flat on your nose. It's just less emotionally invested over some spilled milk. You get back in the game sooner. even now im talking to a few chickz.. not a problem actually. still interesting but gettin into a rship, now ill think twice. u try for 10..ull hit atleast 6 with 3 rejections and 1 maybe type.. but the feeling of being in love etc really has been soured. now its like apa2 jadi means jadi la... no emotional attachment in terms of love..but the thrill of flirting ada kot... |
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deepan84
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Feb 6 2015, 11:23 AM
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QUOTE(RUI @ Feb 6 2015, 09:58 AM) Actually, why would anyone wants to "officially" get into relationship if you already have the all benefits of relationship from multiple female companions? its about the exclusivity which will eventually lead to marriage for a guy at my age. |
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