Whoa there!! You don't simply assume that I disagree with God's plans.

Age difference is not a big deal. Its the attitude of my brother that irked me here. The middle child is suffering here, hello??

I will definitely tell my parents about my plans. I'm a responsible adult and I know what I want.

Today really a slow day for me, can't even do any proper work. That's really bad for a German standard.

hahaha...

It might work but the fool is a rascal.

Yeah, he's quite immature.

Basically, I would suggest these 3 options to my parents:-

Option No.1

I would return home and work in Germany for 2 years, "babysit" him and make him go to church. haha..

Option No.2

Since he dislikes to stay with relatives in Germany, he can come to Malaysia to study and stay with me, that mean I have to move out from my cousin's place. We will stay at my own condo. And he need to go to church. haha...

Option No. 3

He have to live independently and learn to how to survive, ie, cook, cleaning, etc. My sister or my relatives will check on him during the weekend.


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Personally, I dislike Option No.3 because then he will have too much freedom, he will have parties, invite all those skimpy dressed girls over...etc..

Looks like Option no.2 is workable.

OIC. Well most Germans are. Not my brother though. He can be independent but he's lazy to do house chores.

Nah, my parents rather pay a babysitter to do it. Which got me thinking...He can enroll for Bundeswehr University in Munich, and Helmut Schmidt University in Hamburg, 2 top military school. LEL.

No way! Later he have parties and there will be a lot of girls. At his age, I'm sure he wants to do it. (have sex).

When there's no adult supervision, I cannot imagine what's going to happen.

It takes a thief to know one.

I was rebellious too.

I need him to go to church and at the same time I need to watch over him, I can't help being an elder sister.

This post has been edited by tinarhian: Feb 3 2015, 12:37 AM

Boys at his age only knows about porn, sex and girls. How do I make him go to church?

I can't force him to do so.

Furthermore I am reluctant to return home, not yet anyways, he can study here for 4 years or follow my parents to China (worst case scenario). LEL.

This post has been edited by tinarhian: Feb 3 2015, 12:43 AM

We are thinking of letting him stay with our relatives. The one that he dislikes the most. hahaha...

That way, he'll learn to respect others.

Boys will always be boys. This time my parents will support me, because I have given up so much of time for family.

Why do you think I went away to Malaysia? LEL.

Of course it happened before. Boys will always be boys.

1. My Victoria Secret catalog are always missing.
2. I would noticed that he locked his bedroom door after 10pm.
3. The rest are too explicit to be listed here.

I know my brother won't like it when family members are not around him, he just wouldn't say "I love you" or "Thanks for taking care of me" in front of everyone but he'll do things for the family.

That what I'm hoping for.

Coz I buy VS lingerie. Duh!

I have National Geo magazine. lel.

Yeah, Asian families are weird.

Boys will be boys.

I'm half Asian so it doesn't count.

Kron ka,

You should watch "The Notebook."

I used 2 tissue box for this tearjerker.

Yeah but I don't have Asian upbringing. Its only in Malaysia, that I've slowly learning Asian values.

Especially during CNY reunion dinner, everybody will have to wait for the seniors to come and eat first right?

I would sneak in and eat my food first before grandma, haha...Grandma so pissed!

I know she's scolding me. lel. It was during my first year in Malaysia that it had happened.

Then when I received my "Angpow", I immediately opened it in front of grandma and waving the money in front of her.

Yeah, my first CNY was a disaster. Of course now I don't do those silly mistakes coz I learn the custom, lel.

Aren't you the guy with the shaking hands when you drink coffee?

Its just a movie.

At first I was thinking, hey grandma only gave me RM20. Then I realized, all the grandchildren received the same amount.

Kinda. Mostly with my cousins. My uncle and aunty are working in Singapore, they only come back during the weekend.

cho tai ti?

Mine a quiet CNY too because grandma passed away last year but it doesn't mean that we shouldn't stop celebrating CNY.

I have finally bought some firecrackers..lel.

Ok got to run. Preparing Schweinshaxe (pork knuckle) now.

Aww shoot! I bought firecrackers but I've realized I'm going to be in Cambodia during CNY.

So I have to play after I come back then. hehe..

I'm in KL.

See, that's what I don't understand about Asian culture. If nobody want to foot the bill, why don't just split the bill and everybody pay?

Well, he's not shy to express his love to his gfs.

I'm a rebel without a cause. LEL.

Yeah, I did. I waved the angpow money in front of grandma and everyone. My mum was so embarrassed.

My dad thought it was hilarious. hehe..

I thought CNY was like Christmas. You opened your present for everyone to see.

Its ok to save money but how often you have family gathering?

Then I like the uncle who give me more money.

On a side note, most of my mum relatives are Buddhist, Taoist, etc.

So one day, my grandma put some cookies and tidbits in front of a deceased family member potrait, which is in a living room.

So here I am, curious about it all, decided to eat some of the cookies which, later I found out, were supposed to be for the deceased..

I put out a fire, when my neighbour was burning some papers outside their house during some Chinese festival.

Yeah, later I found out I was not supposed to do that.

Yeah, I didn't know that.

I took my dog for a jogging once, and we passed this Chinese shop right, and at the road junction there's this small chinese idols. So many food leftovers, so my dog ate it..

Not supposed to do that right?

Aside from my cultural shock, I like the Mooncake festival and the colourful chinese dessert. Winter solstice festival?

Yeah I know, my mum specifically told me NOT to eat anything from the altar...but I was curious and I never seen those colourful cookies before, and grandma was busy so I decided to eat one cookie...

My grandma was soo angry. haha...Of course dad was laughing so hard that my mum didn't talk to him for the whole day.

I told my neighbour that, "You're not supposed to do open fire burning..Beside the smoke was entering our house."

He was just speechless.

RIP to your friend. I heard that dengue cases is the highest in Selangor? Is that true?