Haih I beg you I don't want any trouble.

I know its not easy for anybody dude, including me. I only started dating last month. LEL.

It was a disaster too.

But I'm trying.

IDK how my suitor is. Only meeting him in June.

Well, there you go. You got to have charisma n confidence too.

You talking to me?

What other tricks you guys have in this forum?

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I don't know, and I wouldn't claim to know, as I've never really bothered to find out via scholarly sources for any explanations.

But from my own viewpoint, it would be offering something that you can attach an emotional bond to, that would bring out your innermost kindness and love.

A common tool would then be food... We all enjoy food, housewives lovingly impart their time and energy to cook nutritious food for the family.

So in a way you prepare something you can assign feelings of sharing, love, kindness, care, and devotion, and then willingly offer it to your loved one (the deceased). See, the tool here is just a tool, could be food, flowers, money, whatever, but it is just a tool that helps bring out those emotions and feelings mentioned earlier.

Now is that sort of emotional offering needed? We can either say yes or no, there's never going to be a right answer. Assuming spirits are real, then yes maybe it's a family obligation. If they're not real, then, can take it as a culture and traditional practice of respecting the elder (pretty sure studies on religiouslike practices and their positive effects on mental wellbeing can be found) . But of course you can also adopt the view that these are all illogical nonsense, for which you could be right or dead wrong too, no one knows. :-)

all in bb code help

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?act=lege...&CODE=bbcode&s=

Well, IDK. I'm a Christian.

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Ohhh...

Hmm it depends on what that statement means. Do you mean, all these are bollocks, or do u mean, I have no idea about it because I've not come across such ideas in my faith.

Oh wait I forgot to answer the key question... That is how the heck does the spirit eat the food. As you could see from my post, I hold the view that it Might not be the food, but rather, the spirit can somehow receive and benefit from your love and kindness, a form of 'positive energy' perhaps. Similar to how one would pray for goodness and strength, as well as the instances where you pray for someone's well being.

This post has been edited by DT1: Feb 4 2015, 10:34 PM

somehow regret show you the bbcode.

Apa ni. Suddenly with failed bbcode and spirit eating?

It mean I'm a Christian. IDK these things.

Aww, dude I didn't mean to piss you off.

I GIVE UP!!! Stupid BB code.


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This post has been edited by tinarhian: Feb 4 2015, 10:41 PM

huh.....? did I sound pissed? Far from that lah :-)

See? Even BBcode don't like you tina.

hua haha ha hue hue.

Haha, it's fine, at least you tried.

The person was asking for it.

Good luck

Well, why don't you initiate it? Invite them.

It's only the beginning of the 2nd month, there's still 10 more months to go, before you know it, you'll probably get married this year

This post has been edited by Carlo J: Feb 4 2015, 10:53 PM

Well, at least I tried right?

Yeah, tried and failed better than not trying and not knowing what might happen.

How did your parents know this suitor? He's all the way across the Atlantic.

I was not around for 2 hours already spawned to 2 pages that's alot of posts

This post has been edited by De_Luffy: Feb 4 2015, 11:03 PM

My parents told the guy's pastor about it...I was just asking for fun.

How would I know that my parents would send full photo of myself and my bio data to the guy.

Uhhh, I know how to tag.

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