More than scammed: she got cursed. Everything the tarot card person say become true. Definitely in cohorts with demons.

P.S she's not a Christian yet. I don't think that's really an important detail but if you guys are really that curious.

This post has been edited by Sophiera: May 31 2015, 11:55 PM

Bro, that's kind of being self centered.

I don't think God would want a broken disharmony for any family.

That girl is still her daughter, God chose Him as the Father that she would come through in this world.

You can't brush him away over his daughter. He has fed her and brought her up all his life, doesn't matter whether he's a good dad role model or not.

This is something you have to learn, you'll need the father's blessing for marriage because eventually IF you get married, you will be a father too one day. You might not feel the pain now, but you'll understand how he feels when you become one yourself.

To tell you from my experience...my parents made it very easy for the guy(s).

My father would just showed the dude his guns, rifles collections, and told him, "I want Christina to be home by 10pm."

8 out of 10 would obey. The other 2 got....Well, let just say I didn't see them again.

Yeah, any guy should have the "old school" introductory meeting with the parents. To make them feel at ease and to give them assurance that she's with a good company.

How the guy act, dress and talk is important too. You would not want your daughter to go out with a degenerate, do you?

All the best dude. Maybe you should buy the father something he likes. Asian father figure loves Red Wine. Or maybe that's just my generalization.

Oh my....From typical Asian parents dating 101 to tarot card and demons.

Really, is this a typical weekend in Malaysia? I guessed I've stayed here too long.

This post has been edited by tinarhian: Jun 1 2015, 01:25 AM

so learn hokkien then, hokkien is so easy to learn that even my friend who is a cantonese married a hokkien wife that he even learn how to speak abit of hokkien

there's a thread about tarot card in serious kopitiam might as well you check with them

Aren't they practitioners?

the thread starter is, well for faq stuff maybe can get more insight about this tarot card thing from the thread

to test the muscle is by using resistance right ? e.g. barbell deadlift exercise. try 10kg, then 20kg, then 30kg... then 100kg.

how to go to 100kg if not going through 50kg first ?
how to go to 50kg if not going thorough 40kg firts ?

as your context is about sexual temptation ? it's like 100kg already.

Where is the logic to trust the kids (our kids), if we (as parents) don't know whether they can handle only 5KG problems ?

it looks like you and me were grown up with 1 tenet value: independence.
that's old school bro
these days, networking rules. relationship dictates.

a parents escort kids for job interview is to give them sense of support and sense of pride.

old school teaches that our kids must be strong, therefore release them as early as possible for them to fight in this nasty world.
where is love in that picture ? none. positive energy and love are actually things that start to dominates in this end times.
it's clearly written in bible that 1 cor 13:8

8 Love never fails [never fades out or becomes obsolete or comes to an end]. As for prophecy ([d]the gift of interpreting the divine will and purpose), it will be fulfilled and pass away; as for tongues, they will be destroyed and cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away [it will lose its value and be superseded by truth].

loves never fades, but everything will be. "everything" includes independence spirit, and old school teachings .

---- to answer my question ----
Because the LORD loves our children more than us, the LORD will lift then 100kg on behalf of our children. Parents needs to acknowledge that no amount of "training / education" will be enough to repel sexual temptation / pornography. I repeat, no training / education will able to repeal sexual temptation / pornography.

so the lesson to teach our children is: Dear kids, when you grew up, there is an adult temptation called lust. These demons comes and go. Many wins for 1 day, but the other days they may fail. Many people has become its prey. But be strong, the one that can fight this temptation is love. If we live in perfect world with perfect love, then this temptations will cease to exist. Only when love diminished, then lust will come. same like a glass, either is filled with liquid (i.e love) or it's empty (filled with air aka lust).... to generate love big enough to fight lust, only CHRIST is the true source. That's why daddy / mommy always teaches you always come to GOD for everything, even when you are making mistakes, don't run from GOD. GOD is a good GOD. HIS love will fight worldly lust. You need GOD's love renewed everyday, because lust is coming everyday.

Actually it's just the matter of setting her father at peace.

I know this is difficult but it'll help in the long run.

Beside, you'll need time to know the person.

Don't rush into marriage, you'll regret it.

This post has been edited by unknown warrior: Jun 1 2015, 02:43 PM

wow that's wonderful never regret the past, treasure whatever it is. It's good.

do you know that to success in live, you must surround yourself with successful mindset people ?
do you know that to success in live, especially around 40 years you should have a mentor, to guide you and tell you pitfalls and help you on the blindspots ? we cannot bear the cost of keep making mistakes as one of learning processes. It's just too expensive.

if you join cell group which is students (around early 20 years) and they are talking about games / study, it will not improve your inner man to be a good 40 years christian. You just have to find community that are 40 years old and surround yourself with 40 years old peers. 40 years man talks different that students and you don't want your inner man behaves like 20 years student right ?

the key word is value. surround yourself with the right cell group of same age will definitely increase your value.

Well its quite strict to own a firearms in Germany. A person may obtain firearm license based on the following criteria:-

a. for personal protection.
b. personal collection.
c. hunting.
d. target practice.
e. home security / protection.

Private possession of automatic weapons is prohibited. Although some find ways to obtain it illegally.

Private possession of semi-automatic weapons is permitted as long as there is valid reason(s).

There's no need for a license if you want to keep a single firing pistol, ie, flintlock pistols.

Who the heck use that anyway?

I've seen AK-47 up close before but never use it. Too dangerous.

You are really like my youngest brother. Can't accept criticism. I always called him "Miss September."

You can be "Miss October."

Just learn to take things easy dude.

Is it that easy to learn Hokkien?

I know Cantonese is a tongue twister.

I only know "chap fan."

Though when I pronounced it, it sounds like "Cheap fan."

The thing is ALL relationship takes time. Even with God it takes time to get to know Him.

Just take it easy, get to know the parent, get to know her first before committing anything.

The true color of a person will only come out after some time, by then you'll know if you're suited for each other, you won't find out much during the first few months of encounter.

IMO minimum at least 1 year, ideally the best is 3 years to be in relationship before getting married.

I really face palm seeing some couple, within weeks or just couple months of knowing each other then get married. Then after marriage, found out, not compatible with each other or keep on having problem with in laws, it's a no brainer really why these things happened. Just lack the patience to discover what is what and who is who.

It's your life really, I'm just advising from neutral perspective and I think you'll be alright.

This post has been edited by unknown warrior: Jun 2 2015, 10:18 AM

Hokkien is spoken majority in whole China, same as Cantonese.

Hokkien is quite easy to learn once you grasp the meaning of the words.

I'm Cantonese chap fan is mixed rice dishes Hokkien we called it chap Peng same meaning just different pronouncing

Because the AK-47 is cheap and produced massively, you need to check the FCG part. Maybe you need to grind the tab that stick out of the back.

The pain that you have discribed is called "trigger slap." You need to modify the disconnector.

Most people replaced the disconnector with Tapco G2.

I prefer functionality over sentimental value. hehe...

So then you should behave like a man. Stop being childish and grow up.

Mmm, chap fan is not only cheap, save me the trouble of cooking.

.....
I'm feeling very... angry? At some of my friends. Buat baik tak dibalas baik. I shouldn't be expecting anything in return but I'm disappointed by their self-destructiveness.

And I got accused for attacking too. As if their entire happiness rests on my shoulder and mine alone.

This post has been edited by Sophiera: Jun 3 2015, 01:29 AM

cheer up soph... no big deal

Ohh. Then next time, try putting on duct tape on your trigger finger.

Why life must be a stress? Enjoy and watch TV la.

Low value ringgit? How the heck you suppose to get it up? Sorry, my economics brain is ZERO.

I only know how to shop and look for bargain deals.

Speaking of marriage and dating. I'm curious how does a Malaysian Christian couples cope when both of them do not attend the same church?

Will there be a conflict should they get married later?

And if they are of different denomination?

And ah...before they get married, they have to attend a pre marital course right?

Maybe I have asked before, gosh, I can't remember. hahaha...