I think the best is to straight ask your parents about what they think. Definitely they might be unhappy initially due to the fact that she is a divorcee and furthermore has a kid. However, you will be surprised if your parents are ok with it in the end because what matters most if your happiness. If you truly love her and wish to start a new family with her, I dont see why your parents will be your stumbling block.. unless they are really those pantang type.

So, dont waste anymore of her time and yours. Ask your parents straightaway on how they feel about it..