please fill the Q&A below:

1. do you love her
2. do you love her daughter
3. do she love you
4. do her daughter love you
5. do your parents love her
6. do your parents love her daughter
7. do her parents love you
8. any religion restrictions
9. can you accept her & her daughter
10. do you feel bad when people tell you " buy 1 get 1 free "
11. do you parents accepting her as a divorced mother with a daughter
12. do you accepting her as a divorced mother with a daughter
13. is your financial allow you to support this family if get marry
14. is her financial allow her to sustain her family for the time being
15. is money / financial is a restriction for your current situation

if i were you, for me a divorced mother with a daughter for me is definitely fine, if i love her, so is her daughter.

you're elder son, and 28years old, older enough to make your own decision.

of cause parents do come in place as a consideration, but dont get influence from parents in decision making.

you have to bear the responsibility yourself

so ask yourself again, do you love her or not.

if yes, what's the issue again?

if no, then you know what to do next.

she have very limited time to find the right men, if you're not, please stop wasting her time, give her your definite answer.

not all people can bear the heavy loaded shoulder at the beginning stage.

can you ?

then basically you have a very clear answer.

your parents.

so your next step is very simple.

tell your parents,

mom, dad : i have a girl friends, she's a divorced mother with a 4years old daughter.

wait for the response.

if response is not really good or getting worse, you can end up the closing with "im just joking"

so you get your answer from your parents already.

for her parents i dont think very important, as long is a good men can appreciate her daughter, they've happy.

if your parents likes her, then u got less worry.

if they cant accept she had a daughter fact, then you might wanna ask their point of view, what's the reason being objection.

if you seldom joke, don't joke.

face to face like doing a business.

ask your parents opinion reason being no face among relatives, or any other factor ?

but let me ask again, you're still dating like any other normal relationship right ?

are you thinking of getting marry with her yet at the moments ?

how bout her ?

did she ?