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Serious ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 13:::..., The LDR Fellowship and Advice Thread
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snommie P
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 Dec 2 2020, 09:20 AM
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QUOTE(Zoo Howl @ Oct 29 2020, 11:19 PM) I was in the same situation like u but this girl is in overseas We matched during start of MCO (Apr 2020), at the beginning everything was very good, late night talk, call, chat, gaming together. But we havent be able to meet, 2 weeks ago i decided to block her on all my social media, i didnt give any hints even though we chat everyday and without saying a bye or anything.... i vanish. Now looking for new relationship you Ghosted her smh. only used her to fill your loneliness during those times, douche move. But for so many months u never really liked her or what. I also started talking to this guy overseas since Mar/Apr and still ongoing until now, sometimes chatting can be a few hours. Just that we cant meet yet due to lockdown. Anyway dead thread. wonder hows everyones LDR. |
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snommie P
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Dec 2 2020, 09:47 AM
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QUOTE(Endeavour @ Dec 2 2020, 09:32 AM) If I've got a choice I would never go into an LDR early on. They usually just die a slow but steady death. Relationship cancer. I've got a Taiwanese ex, we were together for 3 years until I left. Even though she came over for visits maybe once every month, we couldn't do it because she's busy and I'm also really busy. At some point you truly how much you both love each other, but towards the end...you'll realise that it's because of that love that you should just let each other go. If you've really found the One in your life, sometimes it's worth it. I've seen LDR couples that been through all these hurdles together are truly the strongest and their relationship more precious. Its definitely not for everyone...only the strongest mentally. Did you two not plan your future? that's the most important part even before getting really deep into the relationship. Like who is going to move, migrate etc...if no one can compromise then its doomed to fail. |
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snommie P
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Dec 2 2020, 10:35 AM
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QUOTE(Endeavour @ Dec 2 2020, 10:17 AM) Oh yes, we did plan. Quite extensively too, with short term goals and all. Problem is plans also change... We wanted to go to UK to continue our studies together, but we eventually felt that our respective jobs were more lucrative than what we'd get even after getting more education done. She didn't like Malaysia cuz she couldn't do Malay; I didn't like Taipei because there's limited opportunities there, and I don't quite appreciate Mandarin. Anyways. How about you? What's your story For me we're not even in a relationship yet cause we cant meet yet due to lockdown as u know. Hes from Thailand. We met in discord like 8 months ago and talked almost daily since then, sometimes for hours. We are the best of friends now, there's feelings but we dont dare to make it official yet until we meet each other, its mutual we know that. Cause you only know if u truly love that person after seeing them physically. Job wise we're both fine...hes on a high paying job there and it isnt expensive to travel between Thai/Msia. But we have yet to plan so much of course since we arent official yet. But we're both already mature adults to know the compromises we need to make. SO yeah just hope this covid thing ends soon. (im on limited posts on this new acc lol i'll reply pm if needed) |
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