Career VS Relationship. Tough situation if you were to ask me.

Both required time to build but nothing is assured (future proof) until you get there. Is a lifetime decision to be made. I think I would starts from some logical question and answer making sure priorities are set correctly at this point of time. The situation is vary depending on many other factors as we all came from different walk of life.

1. Career and Relationship? The situation seems that you can only choose one unless stay LDR (it doesn't work out for me, so i got to choose one).

2. Singapore or Malaysia? If you are getting super good paid, no way you are not staying in Singapore. I meant you are super well pay above average. Otherwise, building you career and side business in Malaysia may be better option. Time is equal to money. If you are getting super good pay meaning you are going to need less time to make it. Otherwise, you need time to make what is enough for you. Time is always risker as we age.

3. Single or Married? For a guy, i personally not recommending getting marry too early. 35-40 is more ideal in my opinion. Stay Foolish but don't break any of your own rules/principles.

Good Luck.