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Serious ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 13:::..., The LDR Fellowship and Advice Thread

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SMB002
post Dec 2 2020, 10:17 AM

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QUOTE(Endeavour @ Dec 2 2020, 09:32 AM)
If I've got a choice I would never go into an LDR early on. They usually just die a slow but steady death. Relationship cancer.

I've got a Taiwanese ex, we were together for 3 years until I left. Even though she came over for visits maybe once every month, we couldn't do it because she's busy and I'm also really busy. At some point you truly how much you both love each other, but towards the end...you'll realise that it's because of that love that you should just let each other go.
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QUOTE(snommie @ Dec 2 2020, 09:47 AM)
If you've really found the One in your life, sometimes it's worth it. I've seen LDR couples that been through all these hurdles together are truly the strongest and their relationship more precious. Its definitely not for everyone...only the strongest mentally. Did you two not plan your future? that's the most important part even before getting really deep into the relationship. Like who is going to move, migrate etc...if no one can compromise then its doomed to fail.
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My case also quite similar to his, also Taiwan.
We also have plans for future, what we gonna do.
It was delayed due to the pandemic, which is why I started to look for a job at there.
The thing is, she broke it up one day before I got a call back, which was few days ago.
I still haven’t got the job, but it’s a progress. Now I’m gonna channel all my energy to make all my promises came true, even though she’s no longer around.

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post Dec 2 2020, 11:28 AM

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QUOTE(Zoo Howl @ Dec 2 2020, 11:02 AM)
Yes i admit is a douche move... and i have been using her
Seems like LDR no longer work for me...
Few years ago I’m ok with LDR but when time goes, and as u grow older, Seems like LDR doesnt work for me and i need real human touch along with me
Where do you met your taiwanese ex?
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While i was studying there. I came back to work, to be closer to my family.
Then she wants to study phd, so i revise our plan.
It was painful, but at least I got to see my niece growing up. I got to be the uncle that taught her how to walk, because i was staying with my sister while i look for jobs.
The only silver lining in all this heartbreak.

 

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