Hello

I cant help but wanting to encourage you to be strong. This is only a forum. Think!
Dont sweat the small stuffs. Good leader does not sweat on the small stuffs. This is only a forum yes which read by millions but does not give constructive backup and opinion i guess is useless. When being asked even you think its not the right way to ask, take it also as a question. You are in the right position to answer the questions because from the way i read the person just want to know what are the characteristic you have as a leader. Dont sweat the small stuffs. Asking people to back you up is like a cry baby running to a mummy. That is definitely not characteristic of a strong leader. A leader thinks and stand for his value.

Practise what you preach Confusianism does not blantantly ask people to change their family name. Its not tolerence at all. Its like askinng people to disown their son/daighter when he or she has does not conforms to a value.

This post has been edited by extol: Oct 7 2006, 01:16 AM

I am amazed at people like you who can be 100% certain to event that you have absolutely no proof of or the slightest means of verifying the fact. How sure are you that his/her surname is not Gan? I came across alot Gan with medium intelligence and not so average. All also came across with many smart people with the surname Leong. How do you justify?

For him/her having said:
"What sort of leader are you?" Could you not question him in this manner :- "What do you mean by "What sort of leader are you"?I have my own interpretations on this...but would prefer to hear from you."

Arent this more professional since you said a person has to be very very careful on what he/she posted? Why arent you doing the same? You flamed up just because you are not trying to understand his/her intentions. He/she plainly wants to know the characteristic she has as a leader.

You said there are thousand and hundreds of ways to ask a question, there is also a hundread and thousand ways to give a good a advice to others.

You are trying to impart goodness onto others. I can see you are not doing the same. You are definitely not pracising what you preach.

This post has been edited by extol: Oct 9 2006, 01:01 AM