In Rome do what the Romans do. Owning a condo in SG is already a luxury just like owning a landed property in Klang area, let alone a "decent size condo". Like I said before, you dictate how you want to live your life, you control and manage your expenses.
I started off with $2k salary when I first came to SG and I manage to save slightly less than half my pay per month. Years later I bought my house, my car, got married. I have seen a few of my foreigner friends got carried away with luxury goods... iPhone 6 only cost half their monthly salary, a Prada bag only 1 month salary... We used to think these luxury stuff are beyond our reach.
A lot of my friends when they came to Singapore they complain about pigeon-sized houses, forced to take public transport (which they consider a disgrace when they drove Civics/Camry in MY). My property is not built on Sentosa Island, and my car is not a Coupe or convertible, and I still have my meals at kopitiams and markets. But I am confident to say I live a comfortable life.
For those who are on the fence,
- a bus driver earns $2-3k per month, but you work long hours and pretty much zero career growth
- a dish washer earns $3k per month, but You work 12-hours a day, 72-hours a week and $3k includes OT and allowance
- a taxi driver earns $3-7k per month, the less you sleep the more you earn
I made the decision to come to Singapore years back, when I was drawing RM4k salary and accepted S$2k job offer. It was tough but I have no regrets when I look back. Why not think from a different perspective: your first job is the stepping stone to explore a new world, bear with it for a year or two and decide if you want to get a PR, if you still find MY is better then pack and go. PR offers you a whole lot more opportunities.
Firstly, I want to congratulate you on what you have accomplished. And secondly, for knowing contentment - esp. for these sentences:-
"My property is not built on Sentosa Island, and my car is not a Coupe or convertible, and I still have my meals at kopitiams and markets. But I am confident to say I live a comfortable life."
I respect you and am in fact on the way planning to go to Sgp too. I let go of an opportunity some years back, and sure have my regrets. But now the signs are clearer and not hesitating now. Hopefully it will materialise. Wish me good luck!