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 I want to get married but having financial issue!, Would you mind to give some opinion?

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post Feb 11 2015, 11:18 AM

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QUOTE(feliciazoe @ Feb 10 2015, 05:48 PM)
I believe it's possible ! Who says wedding you need a real gold or diamond ring? Who says you need to make wedding such an extravagant expensive thing? Who says you need to buy or rent expensive gowns or hold a crazy big party of celebration ? It's the market and society nowadays that label and make wedding such an expensive thing. Well, if you have a women that really loves you and wouldn't mind a light budget wedding, it would be possible ! Marriage is about love and commitment. Not about money. Think about those olden days how they get married. You don't need to follow the society's trend, you create your own as long you both are happy. =)
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Exactly.....

I know a couple who just did their ROM with Swaroski Chrystal Ring, and have a nice lunch after that with both parents, family and friends. Tea ceremony on the spot and be happy with it. Total cost. almost RM0 not including the dowry. But with proper understanding and discussion, everything is discuss able. They are not selling their daughter for God's sake.

Most of the friends and family knowing that this couple is not that wealthy but have a heart to commit to each other, the friends and family are simply to generous on their ang pow and gifts.

The key is BUDGETING BUDGETING BUDGETING......... A Grand Gring Grong wedding will not promise you a good and healthy marriage.

You think a wedding will nuke your wallet. Wait till you have babies.......

But that is just the nature of life.... Life goes on...... icon_rolleyes.gif
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post Feb 18 2015, 08:31 PM

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QUOTE(GoldenHorn @ Feb 18 2015, 10:35 AM)
That simple?

Woah so nice..
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Nice for man. But the ladies might not like it.
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post Feb 18 2015, 08:36 PM

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QUOTE(jeremy05 @ Feb 18 2015, 10:38 AM)
ur gf how old? 27 consider young marry, wait 3 more years, when you prepare enough money then marry lar, ask her wait lar...
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For women 27 is perfectly good timing. Infact if better can get married earlier especially if planni.g to have more kids. The elder a women gets, the higher the risk of a complication in pregnancy.

Cheers.

 

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