then you shouldn't even bother leaving a comment here. TS is sincerely writing out his heart's content here and you go on, trolling him here. pathetic.

Anyway, TS, it is quite sad to read about your story. I understand what you have gone through more or less. I think the first grave mistake you did during the early days of your 'love-budding' period was not confronting her on why she was being so secretive at the first place.

I mean, you were right about your gut feeling when you suspected that she was up to something but then again, you tolerated and let this incident slipped by to the point where it is no longer a 'trivial' act she does, but rather a deep dark secret she is trying to hide in the closet.

It would definitely be hard to move on since you both have spent quite a number of years together and the memories you both shared would definitely mean a lot to you at least. Try to talk to her once again and this time, ask her to tell you the truth about EVERYTHING, from A to Z. and then you can decide for yourself whether the relationship is still worth saving.