then you should straight tembak her at her face. You say i manage to grab a good deal from trip at this date. Please make necessary to adapt to the time.

I been to your situation before its really painful i know i plan, i pay, i drive,i navigate, i coordinate at the end i still need see her attitude.

I asked please sleep early tomorrow is a 1 day trip. Then the day before she go clubbing, then on the day of the trip i call her 5am she said call her back 6am, then i drive to her house need wait 15mins she not ready, then on the way she said she sleepy so wanna sleep so i end up driving alone while she sleep.

The whole day really moody, she feel tired because have to walk, sleepy. Later i ask her some question she show her attitude keep quiet then somemore driving i got so bad headache when driving back.

This happen because i was like you, everything also must follow her way, Now if she delay maximum of 3 mistake i straight terminate everything

Thanks a lot for the wake up call. Last Christmas I actually booked a room at a Hotel in GH, all paid and everything. Initially she agreed to it but after dunno what discussion she had with her mom, best friend, siblings, she said not worth going there just a few days before it was scheduled.. On Christmas eve i got into a major accident too, so I just let it slide away.

Something similar to your experience, she is ALWAYS late for appointments and she is ALWAYS tired. On weekends she sleeps at 12 and wakes up past noon and still complains she is sleepy. Even when I visit her apartment, there are times when it takes her more than 10 minutes just to open the door. Call her also she doesn't pickup, supposedly cause she was showering or on the phone with her mom etc etc.

I don't really like to force someone to do things but you guys are right. There are times when I just need to stand up and shoot her down. Take the control back. Being kind only left me defenceless to her ways.

Its a lesson learnt, hopefully I won't fall for the same tricks again. Truth to be told, my brain was telling me she's bad news but my heart just couldn't fight back. It's my mistake for being weak.