For me most girls nowadays are getting cheaper compared to the old days..
Sweet talk a lil to them and the guys get wad they want..
They dun really care bout moral values anymore coz it's not "cool" n not living in "modern life"..
Easily being brainwashed n diperkotak-katikkan by the medias especially from the westerns, mcm lalang..
Wad the westerns do we all gotta do la..
Try look at the old days especially in asia, cases like sex b4 marriage were like so rare coz they had high decency, bt now they r juz all over the place..
The moral values had long gone away wad a shame..
People thnk dis sex thingy is apart of love,maybe yes at first 4 some ppl, bt as u move on it's all just bout lust, dat's y u can't stop doing it, nothing got 2 do wit love anymore 4 these young unmarried couples..
Tatasusila org2 asia yg dahulunya sangat dipandang tinggi sekarang dah takde makna, semua nak terikut2 orang barat..
All wanna follow westerns soon asians lose their own identity..


Say no to PRE-MARITAL SEX..
Humans think with brains not desires...

Do you have to create a new account and post these stuffs.

Long ago, some asians do intercourse with their own family members also. So it is all about willingness and not about following foreigners.

what can i say...
better not to do sex before marriage..

but it depend on ourself...

It's not about following the Western ways of doing things...
There are occurrences of pre-marital sex in other parts of the world too, y'know.
China. India. The Middle East.

And in the 60's things were just as bad as they are now.
Worse even. Was it the 'modern' thing to do back then?

It's all down to willpower...

Pre-marital sex can lead to a lot of problems...
Not only unwanted pregnancy.
But a whole bunch of other complications.
Mental. Physical. Emotional. Social.

Say no to pre-marital sex.

This post has been edited by shikuzika: Apr 18 2008, 11:37 PM

care about the disease onli!!!
if not.. do as much as u want

most important is the guys muz know that sex come with responsibility

As long as you're both comfortable and enjoy it. I'd say go ahead. Don't forget to take precautions!

Sometimes it's also down to peer pressure. Hearing that "everybody is doing it, so why can't I" does have an impact in the decision making.

I find that guys who get angry about others having premarital sex, are somewhat frustrated about it (not getting any perhaps? )

sex because of love doesnt mean she is cheap...... please respect all the girls
did u ever ask ur mum about this question before?
how about if she say "yes"?
the most important is the couple know what they are doing and know how to responsible with it

This post has been edited by outsider: Apr 20 2008, 12:17 PM

most of my hometown friend get married becoz of this..

What about abortion? wat happen after abortion and how it affect the couple in the future

many of my friends said they will have sex only if they married to someone..
but after that, 80% lose their virginity to their bf before get married...
For me, i didn't think about having sex after or before married.. if you date with a guy, and think that u love him so much, is worth to give "it" to him...is better than have sex with those guys who only want your body..
haha... like me, my current bf, i willing to give my 1st time to him, because i think it is worth to and i love him so much... i'm not expect that he must married me after i have sex with him...
especially nowadays...not many girls are virgin whose age above 19

sum even lose her virginity at a very early age..14....
reli Uncredible!!

that is too young.. 99% of them are not mature enough for it yet..

as for the rest.. having sex or not is up to individual, it is out of love not something you should give or receive just because you feel you should be doing it.

if you love your partner, havin sex is normal to couples. in most cases, couples are even closer to each other after that.

Yeah true but I really hate those boys that take advantage of girls jsut cos they want carnal pleasures.

my ex- secondary skol juniors had sex b4 and proudly spread to public...swt...
some of them are jz 14, 15, 16
oh my gosh..
no big deal for them...

This post has been edited by pino88: Apr 24 2008, 07:56 PM

NO RELIGION IN THIS WORLD ALLOWS PRE-MARITAL SEX

so, we have to think it that doing this 'yuck' thing will bring worse to life.

with great sex comes great responsibility.

sex is a gift for marriage.
If you open the gift before it, do you think there will be elements of surprise after that? So it will destroy your marriage!
DON'T ever do this although sometimes the WORLD tell you...

JUST DO IT..............

if u really find some1 u love, n love u too.... then do whatever u want (of course not when u're attached d la...) just play safe & enjoy the ride...