aiyoh? u want guys to be treated like things?

i hope u dont treat girls like things oso!!!

A girl once approached me....

I dont know her well...i know she is my schoolmate...her class is next to mine.

She asked a fren to arrange for us to meet.

I met her.

She told me she really likes me.
Wants me to be her bf.
She said she isnt forcing me, im free to make my choice.

I said sorry. I dont think thats possible.
Looking back at it....
I wish i wasnt so cruel and said NO right there.
I shud have taken time to consider...i mean longer time, eventhough i already decided not to be with her, i shud give her time.
After that meeting, i always runaway if she is around or we were walking on the same corridor, i would turn away...I avoid her..Why?
Coz I feel so embarassed.

And for girls...
Dont just tell that guy suddenly if u like him...eventhough ur so damn hot.
Get to know him as frens 1st. He might be not that great when u get to know him.
Anyways, it is better to be more intimate after u get to know someone better.
My case? Im ok if she wanted to be frens...but coz she suddenly said she likes me and wanna be my gf...i was shocked. And like i said...i tried to be frens with her...but cant coz i was so embarassed after that.

Lastly....
To that girl that pour her heart out to me, and all the gurls out there who tell the man they like their feelings, I salute u all.
Seriously, i know it wasnt easy for u guys to do it.
It takes more than just courage.Esp when u are a girl.

I respect u all.
And oso to that particular girl, im sorry if i hurt u by saying NO that time...and avoided seeing u after that. I didnt mean it.

This post has been edited by quiksilver: Oct 12 2006, 03:31 PM