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Advice Wanted [WTA] Proposal Ring & Wedding Bands, Please advice me!! Need Help!!

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annann91
post Aug 3 2017, 02:09 PM

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QUOTE(kwbaka @ Jul 18 2017, 12:30 PM)
did anyone bought their proposal ring from tiffany?
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Just my 2 cents.

Tiffany is honestly overpriced. My bf and I checked the price and it was 0.15ct for RM7,000++ in April 2017.
I don't know what the other 3Cs were though.

Even so, I think you're better off getting it from other shops rather than Tiffany's. Cos as a lady, nobody will be going around telling their friends where is it from but rather the size and the shiny-ness would be more of a topic of conversation.

That being said, if you can afford it, go ahead smile.gif
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post Oct 5 2017, 04:52 PM

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QUOTE(OmiCatFace @ Oct 5 2017, 04:40 PM)
Here begins my headache moments. Although my gf once told me to decide on the diamond ring, I am unsure if I should go for those ready made well-known diamond ring brand (like Love&co, Hemera, Le Lumiere and etc) or should I go for those customize diamond and ring (like Brian Gavin, Audrey, Wah Chan, JannPaul and etc). Ladies and guys thinking may be a bit different you see... guys are more to technical stuff than just looking at brand (specs, performance, etc) while ladies usually go for brand (Tiff&co, Love&co, etc).

Any opinion or suggestion based on the above? If I were to order those diamonds from Brian Gavin for example, you think it can fit my budget and enough time to do the setting as well? Thought of JannPaul too but I don't know if can fit my budget as well. Worry if I go SG then end up with failure. Hope all the sifu here can give me some guidance.  notworthy.gif  icon_question.gif
**Sorry to keep this one so long. I just hope my scenario here can help others as well when comes to decide on the proposal ring**  cool2.gif
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I won't comment on the diamonds cos there are plenty more sifus who is more knowledgable than me.

So I'll just assist on the girls point of view smile.gif

I would say don't go for brand. In April, I went to Tiffany & Co to get my bracelet cleaned so I just casually asked what the ring prices was. A 0.15ct cost RM7,000 and that is the lowest they have!! That alone has already hit your budget.

I would go with getting a diamond from Wah Chan and maybe get it set somewhere else. I got a ring from Wah Chan (both diamond and setting) and if you really look at the setting, it isn't the best of the best. I actually don't have any issues with it, but my bf keeps staring at it cos like you put it, more technical. If however, you plan to get a solitaire, then I guess that wouldn't make much of a difference smile.gif

Hope this helps!

This post has been edited by annann91: Oct 5 2017, 04:55 PM
annann91
post Oct 6 2017, 02:32 PM

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QUOTE(OmiCatFace @ Oct 6 2017, 08:43 AM)
Thanks for your view! That is great that you view it that way. Because I think diamonds play an important role for the ring. for the same budget, you will be getting lower specs for a branded diamond ring and getting a better specs in other customisation shop. My consideration is more to the customisation shop like Wah Chan, Eymayco, JannPaul and etc. But I do want to get what best for her and the ring she will like most. How do you think I can find out which one she will prefer from my girl based on your opinion? Ask straightforward way?  hmm.gif
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Brands is just brands. I believe if you want to get a better setting, I would go elsewhere and not Wah Chan. Diamond however you can get from there or you can get from Whiteflash like sifu above have mentioned.

It really depends on which route you want to go with, really. (1) Surprise on ring and proposal (2) Surprise on proposal
You could go with what kambingkoh said by doing on the holder first then select a setting. Personally, not really my thing tho cos I would want to wear the ring straight away, lol smile.gif

Another way is you could ask her good friend about her likings. Girls always talk about it to their girlfriends about weddings/rings etc. Especially if you've been with her for awhile. Berpakat-ing with her good friends is always the best way, be it ring selection or proposal.

e.g. Ring: Some ladies prefer solitaires, some ladies prefer more complex.
Proposal: It can be done privately or with friends/family around.

Everyone is different, so making her good friend your confidant would be a good idea smile.gif

This post has been edited by annann91: Oct 6 2017, 04:14 PM
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post Oct 6 2017, 04:13 PM

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QUOTE(bb100 @ Oct 6 2017, 03:51 PM)
I pakat-ed with her siblings on the ring design and the overall proposal. When the day came, she was "angry" with them for being such great actors and actresses all the while haha!
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Hahaha! "Angry" je, but actually sure she was damn touched and happy hehehe!
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post Oct 9 2017, 09:24 AM

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QUOTE(OmiCatFace @ Oct 6 2017, 04:33 PM)
Oppss... Guess I can't do that now. Hahaha. I don't want to involve the siblings with my own reasoning. Plus, she has 4 sisters (2 married), guess will be a bit to obvious if they ask suddenly. I think close friends or colleagues might do the job for me. But thanks @annann91 with the suggestion!

Based on what I know about my gf, she might look at designs more than just brands (based on the way she shop for clothes). Thou sometimes might conflict with this (branded handbags due to better or classy designs). I just hope she gonna answer them that she likes design and diamond better than just brand! *finger-cross* Then, I can decide on my next step for the diamond rings. Will keep you guys update...  cool2.gif

Besides those famous ones outside MY, any suggestion that I can get a really good diamonds (H&A)? A place where at least able to show me the diamonds and other scope (Ideal, ASET) than just the normal H&A scope. Yesterday I went into Eumayco and he shown me his best diamond based on the minimum diamond spec I provided to them. Here is the GIA cert number: 2266424612. The cut score is 94.1. What minimum score will you guys consider it as good and acceptable? I am sure it is hard for you to go to a shop and just look for a 100% score diamond cut. But the last time I entered Le Lumiere, 2 diamonds also with 100% scores. Such an coincidence...
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Lol. Honestly, no one will go around "This ring is from Tiff&Co, this ring is from Cartier" laugh.gif
Girls usually just wanna see the ring, even if they asked where you got it from, it really makes no difference.

Unless of cos you're among extremely extremely rich friends, then yeah I guess. Lol.
Although, speaking for my extremely extremely rich friends, they didn't buy from branded shops too. They got it from WahChan, DeGem and Love&Co smile.gif

I personally have branded handbags too but that's cos of the quality and the the durability. Diamond ring is not really "usable" if you know what I mean. laugh.gif
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post Oct 9 2017, 12:12 PM

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QUOTE(OmiCatFace @ Oct 9 2017, 10:36 AM)
Yesterday, my gf brought up about a proposal ring thingy. Her best friend asked her out to help on wedding gown selection on Saturday and they had a conversation about proposal ring and wedding band. Then she shared it with me about their conversation and gave her honest opinion about the ring. She said she don't want those branded ring coz is too costly and what she prefer is the design of the ring ! Hahaha. At least now I don't need to worry if I need to go for those Le Lumiere or Love&co diamond ring. Can now focus on searching for loose diamonds and go for customise ring.  icon_rolleyes.gif  brows.gif
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Hahaha! That's great! Exciting time for you hehe! Congrats!
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post Nov 21 2017, 02:43 PM

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QUOTE(zaFrOoNaLdO @ Nov 18 2017, 07:22 PM)
If i send my diamond for setting, should i leave the stone with the jeweller? Or i should keep it once setting is done only give them my diamond stone?

Afraid they will swap it with another stone.. mine is GIA, i know there's laser number on the girdle but i guess its not hard to fake it? Since it will be with the jeweller for about a month.
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Before you give the diamond over to the jeweler, ask them to verify the GIA number. Once you have gotten your ring set, check the GIA on the diamond again before leaving that it matches the GIA cert you have.

I did that for mine smile.gif
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post Apr 2 2018, 10:32 AM

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QUOTE(David900924 @ Mar 31 2018, 12:58 PM)
do any1 hav experience to buy diamond oversea to hav tax refund to enjoy better price compare to buy locally? pls share if it is a good idea to do so.
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I didn't buy a diamond but I bought a Cartier wedding band, they were cheaper there and also GST refundable - so we saved about RM1.2k overall. 5.5% GST refund not 7% though.

As for engagement ring, I didn't buy it there but I casually took a look at the jewelry stores and they mention it is also tax refundable. The prices didn't look cheaper though, pretty similar in price. But that is cos I didn't try negotiating so it could be cheaper.

 

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