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 I have fallen in love ...AGAIN..

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cybpsych
post Dec 2 2014, 08:59 AM

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giving up too fast!

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Me: Yo. Have u watched Big Hero 6?
She: Not yet. Why? <-- opportunity #1
Me: Wanna go watch? I got free movie pass from tgv movie club. Expiring soon. Sooo..
She: When? I want to spend time with <her friends name whos flying off to singapore soon>
Me: Oh go la spend time with her. Actually anytime you're free. Tomorrow also can. Tuesday also. Or next week. <-- fail #1, indecisive! set a date, ask her if it's ok. d-o n-o-t g-i-v-e u-p!
She: Hahahahahahah.. next week is my aussie trip la. <-- opportunity #2
Me: Hahaha. ok la. Have fun with <insert friends name> <-- fail #2, keep planning FOR her, not encourage her to go steer away!


she already given you some leeway, letting you know upfront of her plans .. then you plan accordingly mah.
cybpsych
post Dec 2 2014, 02:37 PM

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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Dec 2 2014, 01:12 PM)
AIYAAAAA!!! now i read all ur replies i feel damn stupiak >< how wud i know la.

I juz ajak her first. Mana i tau need to follow up to that detail. I approached it with the thought that she wudnt want to go anyways :/ just ajak for the sake of not regretting not doing so.

Sigh.. anyway.. i still tink she dun wan to go with me anyways..
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you're already liking her and wanted to spend more time with her.

but everytime an opportunity arise in your face, you're running like a sad puppy. how lahhhhh if i'm that girl, i will force you to repay me wit hagen daaz everyday! LOL

jokes aside, problem is you're already doubting yourself FIRST, before everything else. you seems can predict your future failure instead of everything else between you & her.

be +ve bro!


p/s: i dont know about her view to further the friendship into meaningful r/s considering both are diff race. if you think both of you can handle it, then why not. else, dont drag her further and disappoint her.

This post has been edited by cybpsych: Dec 2 2014, 02:39 PM
cybpsych
post Dec 2 2014, 02:52 PM

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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Dec 2 2014, 02:48 PM)
eh haagen daz everyday also can la if she'd let me  biggrin.gif 

aiyah.. i dunno lahh i really dunnooo already..

I kinda can predict what she thinks la. If no signal from her at all, then quite hard for me to push forward.

I mean, if i sudah ajak go watch movie, and she say when and all, and I say whenever shes free coz i dunno when is she going out with the friend,

turned out she was totally free yesterday and today. If she was interested, she would tell me right?[cool.gif If not? keep quiet saje lah. Thats how we kill off

an invitation gently right? What am i supposed to do sum more? Set a date? if she memang dont wan then no point lor. Wat for force2 people.

I am 100% sure she knows how I feel about her leh.. But proly she just ignores it and treat me like usual friend.

Wat i can do now is just fish fish pull pull let go let go. Drag her further and disappoint? Hell no la. Thats not the case.

She memang not looking at me that way at all.

Yea to top it up, different race different religion, different everything, how is this ever going to work?

Don't even know if im going to let her know how I feel also. Probably wont ever, coz im a big *****.
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chill la bro.

bolded part above. big wrong assumption. there are girls who dont tell you straight and expect a lil' curiousity from the guy to propose a plan!

set a date first, see if she wants to go, then proceed from there. kalo jadi, ON je la. kalo tak, apahal steady leave it like that ler.

seems you both are quite comfy with each other as friends than romantic r/s. keep it that way is ok. no harm. instead, it'd bring the best out of you~ why? other girls are observing you too! you dont know it, but surely someone somewhere in your company is observing, admiring you.

cybpsych
post Dec 3 2014, 09:26 PM

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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Dec 3 2014, 06:02 PM)
nah. i give u update.

She: Yooo! what time u watching movie?
Me: I haven't bought tix yet la. why?
She: I suddenly remembered i wanted to go 1U to repair my ipad. I otw now.
Me: Ahahahaha really? But the next one is 8.45pm? Want to have dinner first?
She: Oh I'm not planning to stay that late tho. Aiya. I thought theres one around 5 6 pm.
        Nvm la. I shall see u tomorrow then. Sorry give u false hope.
Me: Or u go back home first la. 6pm i pick u up?
She: No la its okay. I lazy to go out already. I'm already at 1U.
Me: Ala just window shop first la, time will fly.
She: Its ok la. Sorry man.
Me: I see. Ok lah. I'm still going tonight.
She: Okie. I tot u went for earlier session.
Me: Am thinking 101 things to make u wait until 8.45pm. haahahha
She: hahahah. Sorry la. See u tmrw la. fun filled day.
Seriously. If you think my story all wimpy and shit I suggest you GTFO ya. I never invited people like u to come here read.

You dont have the right to tell me to stop writing here. If u dun like, then please dont have to waste your time here.
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OK there's progress!

My opinion, cannot watch other movie that match her time? You are not really going to watch movie right? More importantly is to focus on her, not yourself. She's begging for your attention lah (or at least ur company? Or money? Whatever la. Just do it!)

Reading her responses, she has been putting some thoughts! You've seeded the idea (Inception-style) that you will be at 1U, and then she's in 1U liao! Nothing is that coincidence!

Keep surprising her! Challenge her! You guys are challenging each other while tango-ing, without even knowing it tongue.gif

 

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