I am silent reader of this thread for quite some time but today feel the need to comment something on this issue.

Have to say I somewhat understand the drama going on between you too. I believed there is pent up emotions inside both of you and the fact you guys can't say it out loudly is causing all this tensions.

My advice to be honest is to just tell her everything that is inside of you. I'm not sure what her response will be. It could be either one but trust me it would really help to break the tension spell and perhaps bring clarity to both of u. Nothing is far worse than keeping your feeling inside and having to deal with all this drama daily.

Trust me I have gone through this.

This post has been edited by Len32: Jul 19 2014, 12:05 PM

This is based on my experience. I went through somewhat like your situation not wanting to rock the boat and keep telling myself not to say anything because worry our friendships might end up badly or that I can't face the fact I will lose him even as a friend. And stupidly enough for almost 10 years both of us didn't know we actually had the very same feelings towards each other.
Although for my case fortunately I had a happy ending story cos somehow we managed to get it together in the end and we are now a couple but that is 13 years later. All these years we could be together we wasted it. I guess I am very lucky or perhaps I am destined to be with him.
But looking back there were many times where we could easily let go of each other and never realize how much we meant to one another.
I guess my point it somehow you have to accept that eventually all this drama has to end and you both need to go to the next step. Why not figure it out together and get clarity on the issue rather than dragging it on. It's not healthy on your and I'm sure for her too.
Haha sorry for the long winding story here. Hope it helps!

This post has been edited by Len32: Jul 20 2014, 12:47 AM

Haha yes sometimes I think we need something to trigger the confessions. For my case it was indeed something that forced us to be apart for a few years from one another that finally triggered our confessions to one another.
Perhaps in your case your resignation can be the catalyst for it to happen.
We are indeed lucky and blessed and perhaps destined too.
I wish you the best of luck!

Hahaha I kinda think you missed your 'chance' there to ask her seriously about the status of you guys or at least getting some clarity. It was in my opinion a missed opportunity there although as you have mentioned previously you need more time due to the circumstances between you both plus it's a bit difficult cos you Guys are colleagues.
My gut is saying she does maybe has some feelings or perhaps affection for you but to how serious it is that's pretty debatable. You can like someone easily but to love that's more than just the feeling but also the commitment that comes with it. Maybe she isn't ready for that.

Yup i agree with your friends on it...wait for the right setting and go for it..good luck and wish you all the best!
The one that fights for love never loses even if the outcome isnt as expected cos you gotten the one thing that is hard to come by these days, courage!
Anyways Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri to you! Hope you have a good one..

Seriously everyone, why are you so bitter towards the TS. Why so much hatred over his stories. Yes I admit we do not know the real story and yes I guess we will never know but still why can't we just be happy that he found his happy ending. Why spend your energy hating his post. Why can't for once we be happy or at least try to be for him. What can be achieved by proving he's faking the story. For once in a auspicious period of time we just learn to share his happiness. Ps congrats TS, I am genuinely happy for you regardless the circumstances.

Haha unfortunately for mine, it didn't work out in the end and we have broken up. And we are practically strangers now which is the consequences I fully accepted going into this relationships knowing it might end up bad which happened in our case. Anyways no regrets and if there is 1 advice I can give you is just to go into the relationships with open eyes and fully aware that the hardest battle in a relationships is to maintain one. Nevertheless congrats once more! I always believe if it's meant to be it will be somehow.

Yup just broken up recently. Haha wouldn't describe myself as strong. Still struggling with it but more or less begin to accept that it was nothing I can do differently to change the outcome. Acceptance probably is my best friend now.anywayw not going to make this thread all about me because it should be about you! Hahaha. Nice to hear a happy ending in this thread. It is indeed the best outcome to cap the story