no. even if you do not answer them, you are still subjected to their questions by just reading their views. and when you read and have no answer in your heart, then you begin to wonder whether your faith is trully justified. many strong christians have fallen this way.

now, i give you a hint to my question.

lets look at the story of David and Batsheba. That is the perfect example to what Jesus trully meant in Matthew 5:28.

We must not forget the Bible translation from language to language particularly from Hebrew to Greek to English can be lost or not translated properly in the past. this we must accept.

the woman is not all women, in Matthew 5:28. the woman Jesus meant is a woman that is in relation to someone else. in other words, MARRIED WOMAN.

if men cannot lust women, then men might as well not get married. lust is a gift from God. just as anger or anything we falsely think as negative and must be suppresed. that is not what God intend us to do.