- First of all, You should not interfere in her relationship which already engage. Try think if you were the other way round? if you were her fiance? Rude to say <<A**Ho**>>

- If you really believe her, then wait till she done a correct paper work and procedure.

- Should not support 100% financially

- Just stay as close friend is more then enough.

Solution:
- Get out of this mess/ sh*t
- Ask back your refund if she willing to give or just think you make a big donation/ learning fee lo.
- If she can do this to her ex? do you think she wont do that on you? Think twice b4 crushing people relationship