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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 2:::...., The Fellowship of LDR

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Joshua_0718
post Apr 2 2007, 02:10 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 2 2007, 10:57 AM)
That one I'm not really sure about it, but we are trying to reduce her bills.. Hopefully in the future I could come up other ways that is even better..  biggrin.gif
Nice to hear that your gf is recovered Joshua. smile.gif Anyway, how long you two been together ah? If you don't mind me being nosy about your relationship how you both started together or get to know each other?  hmm.gif
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You better ask her to ask properly what plan she actually on.

I and her ar? Mmm.. 2 years, 4 months, 12 days. How we both started ar? Haha... Long long story, very long story. I and her are secondary classmate for 3 years. Form 3, 4 & 5. During form 3, saw her and kinda have interested of her(making friends of course) but didn't have chance as we sat very far away. 1 year pass.

Form 4 & 5, she sat infront of me. blush.gif That's where we really get to each another. And soon, we get quite close as we are in the same gang of friends that always chit chat together. During that time, I got feeling of her already, but I didn't voice out my feeling as I knew her requirement is quite high and I gave up. So, I eventually with another girl together. And my gang of friends, 4 of my male friend too have feeling to her but also same keep quiet except two, two of them tell her and she rejected them.

Time flies. After form 5, my gang went up genting together. That's where she has feeling for me. blush.gif During that time, I eventually had problems with my gf(ex) that time. So, I were actually keep on the phone only. Her friends keep on came near to me and console me and tell me what to do. They actually had feeling on me. So, my gf(current) couldn't get near but just watch.

After came down from Genting. I broke up with my gf(ex). I very soon get very close to a motivation course newly made friend, let's call her P. Everyday sms and call. But I knew I just like her and not love. At that time, I knew I still got feeling toward my gf(current), so I eventually brave myself up and told her. Supringsly, she told me that she have feeling to me too. blink.gif I got shocked actually. BUT then, there is where goes wrong. I kinda mind of age different as she is elder than me 1 year, and at that time I am not close to her but P. So, I do not know whether I should go with her a not. I told P the whole situation, and P scolded me. Asking me to choose between my gf(current) and her. blink.gif I did not told P that I like her before, we just a very close friend at that time. Being confused, I rejected my gf(current) and together with P, and that is a very very bad move.

Our life carry on and she goes to Singapore to study & work. I found that I feel for P is not LOVE, just LIKE. Still the same. But I just couldn't dump P just like that as she will be very lonely in KL, she does not have friend in KL except me. So, I just delay and looking for suitable time for me to tell her. At the time, I again ask my gf(current) to wait for me to settle everything, she agree to wait for me to settle.

One fine day, I were chatting with my friend on MSN, and I just went out like that. P went and check my conversation history and found out everything that I am waiting for chance to break up with her, and knew I am suffering being with her. After I came back, she cried . I apologize to her that it is all my fault. P knew that I eventually still love my gf(current). So, she let me go.

And during my gf birthday, I eventually official ask my gf to be my gf. That's where we started.

After reading, I am sure you guys will feel I am very Jin Kak(keji). I knew I knew, but after I told them my reason, they understand. What you guys think?

Anyway, the most funny thing is, my whole gang of male friend like her except 1, and goes to her female friend whom like me except 1. Funny huh? Both of us thought we are impossible, but at last, we are still together.

So, that' why I really appreciate her very much blush.gif
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post Apr 2 2007, 07:40 PM

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Oh gosh.. She is sick again... sad.gif

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post Apr 2 2007, 08:01 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 2 2007, 07:52 PM)
Aww man.. I thought she fully recovered?
I'm doing fine now  biggrin.gif
What about you?
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Yup, she fully recovered. But today when she goes to work, she catch the bacteria again. She sick till I don't allow her go for her night class sad.gif
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post Apr 3 2007, 12:33 AM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 2 2007, 08:40 PM)
Heh, so your gf is stubborn ya? Just like mine when I ask her don't go out she insists but sometimes she got listen to me la.. smile.gif
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Huh? She is not stubborn lar. She just like to against me for the fun of it. But this time she ask me whether she should go for class a not. smile.gif
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post Apr 3 2007, 01:27 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 3 2007, 12:40 PM)
Yours is for fun but mine is for real sad.gif

But nevermind la girls mah biggrin.gif
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Then, use other way to tackle the problem lor. brows.gif
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post Apr 4 2007, 07:55 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 3 2007, 02:57 PM)
Like what?  blink.gif
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There is many ways. smile.gif

QUOTE(trafox10 @ Apr 4 2007, 09:44 AM)
hii ppl...long time no post le...just to update
..my gf's might be down with a critical illness...so sad now..
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I am sorry to hear that.
May I know what illness? Anyway, be strong. Be your gf side all the way down and support her. I am sure she need you at her side, and you must be strong. Believe in our current medical, won't be any problem.

I will pray for u smile.gif
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post Apr 5 2007, 12:14 AM

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QUOTE(trafox10 @ Apr 4 2007, 09:34 PM)
confirm it;s cancer already..sigh..now need to stage it..very worried for her..
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I m very sorry to hear that....

Don't worry k? And you must be strong no matter what. She really need your support. I have seen many cancer patient really need a strong heart people to accompany them to fight against the war, as this war isn't easy at all.

I have ask my catholic society members to pray for her. Can I have her name please?

Again, be strong!!! flex.gif

QUOTE(hazelnet @ Apr 4 2007, 10:40 PM)
LDR is hard to maintain ...

Finally, we have broke up in a peaceful way, even though i still love him ...

Take care there ....
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What happen all of the student??
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post Apr 5 2007, 12:46 AM

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QUOTE(trafox10 @ Apr 5 2007, 12:40 AM)
Thanks Joshua  for yr prayers.. .me going to zzz...this few days nv zz properly...
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Okok, go and sleep. Have some good rest as you need to have drive to KL.

Good Night Trafox. smile.gif
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post Apr 5 2007, 11:57 PM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 5 2007, 10:25 AM)
Its better if you can tell us her name so that we can pray for her. Thanks.
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He PM me his gf name. I think he tried to keep it confidential. Let's make it Trafox's Girlfriend. God will know. smile.gif
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post Apr 7 2007, 07:43 AM

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QUOTE(trafox10 @ Apr 6 2007, 06:26 PM)
ya bluewind..i will de..
Ppl thanks for all yr encouragement...
now still deciding whether to go private Hospital or Govt de now..
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If your gf got buy any insurance like medical insurance, directly change her for private hospital. If no and you can afford, change her to private hospital too. Private hospital will give more attention to patients compare to government. I admitted to hospital b4, tat's why i know smile.gif
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post Apr 11 2007, 09:48 AM

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trafox10 and your gf, G-A-M-P-A-T-E-H
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post Apr 15 2007, 07:44 PM

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Yeah, quiet doesn't mean is bad. biggrin.gif

I am reporting back again. Just came back from redang with her. Hehe.... Cool trip... But seriously very tired. Lots of funny stuff happen. What a memorable trip. rolleyes.gif

So... how's everyone?
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post Apr 16 2007, 12:05 AM

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Always hold your loved one's hand and never let go. smile.gif



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post Apr 16 2007, 01:32 AM

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QUOTE(trafox10 @ Apr 16 2007, 01:24 AM)
Thanks  all for yr ganbatte~ my Gf's coping quite well with her situation..she accepted it and will fight against it.. smile.gif

I just came back from Kl...went there on sat without telling my GF to surprise her for her birthday..walk the whole KLCC just to look for the restaurant to eat..and a cake as well..legs tired..
Finally went to Al Marjan and coordinated with the helpful staff over there to help me to turn off the lights(only a small area la) when she arrived with her friend..who's also my accomplice..lol

When the lights went off and i appeared with a cake..

She was so surprised coz she din expect me to come ....can really see how happy she was..and she nearly cried coz she was so touched..
I was happy even though i was tired running the whole noon..because seeing her smile makes me happy .. smile.gif
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Good Job. Quite romantic huh u?

You better go n have some rest. smile.gif
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post Apr 17 2007, 01:01 AM

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QUOTE(mandysu @ Apr 16 2007, 03:30 PM)
Joshua..i like your pic a lot..so sweet smile.gif
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LoL. Still got a few more.. smile.gif

Shy to upload


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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 16 2007, 09:37 PM)
notworthy.gif notworthy.gif notworthy.gif notworthy.gif

bow bow bow XD

Well, I love her a lot and appreciate her.. SO haha she got my trust and I also trust her a lot.. So yeah, that's what a LDR all about biggrin.gif
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What about patient? tongue.gif


Guys, another 9 more then we will be entering version 3. My hand very gatai, I went and open version 3 already. But it is lock temporary. tongue.gif

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post Apr 17 2007, 01:46 PM

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QUOTE(mandysu @ Apr 17 2007, 09:02 AM)
Wah...Version 3 *bravo bravo*

But what do you mean by another 9 more?
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9 more post.... Hehe

QUOTE(suiteng @ Apr 17 2007, 09:10 AM)
Another 7 more post from here counting. Mandy ah, why not you create a new V3 now? smile.gif
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Can can.. Our founder can create. I just keep the version 3 close rclxms.gif

QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 17 2007, 10:23 AM)
Joshua already created another V3, because of his hand very gatai.. laugh.gif

Haha, I missed one point well yeah patience as well.. Aiya Joshua many things one la later if you figured another one out then you tell me to add one more in the list ah? tongue.gif

Upload the pics .. make us jealous of you biggrin.gif vmad.gif  vmad.gif
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Yup, yesterday night too boring. Saw our post reaching #2500 so went and create.

Haha, for sure I will...

Haha... Don't want, I don't want jealousy. Hehe
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post Apr 17 2007, 05:45 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 17 2007, 04:25 PM)
Weeee 2500!!! I'm the last one liao.. biggrin.gif

Eh, so good leh you kokuryo.. smile.gif

"hoi mun dai kat" Let's welcome the new V3 biggrin.gif

Joshua we need your key lei.. C'mon.. where are you la?
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OPENED rclxms.gif rclxms.gif

QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 17 2007, 05:20 PM)
.... Can I know what's the reason? - I thought we need to open another?
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Becoz they want to save resources. They do not want to keep spam msg especially in kopitiam.

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