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TSyap800
post Feb 10 2014, 01:19 PM, updated 12y ago

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I'm having some argument with my gf. Im not too sure how it is but i dont really agree with my gf point of view.

She wears a bra that doesnt fully cover her nipple. The part didnt cover is the outer circular part is contanlt outside the bra.

IS that right? She wears some low cut attire sometimes. It is not too good if people see that.
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post Feb 10 2014, 01:21 PM

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QUOTE(yap800 @ Feb 10 2014, 01:19 PM)
I'm having some argument with my gf. Im not too sure how it is but i dont really agree with my gf point of view.

She wears a bra that doesnt fully cover her nipple. The part didnt cover is the outer circular part is contanlt outside the bra.

IS that right? She wears some low cut attire sometimes. It is not too good if people see that.
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its pretty hard for us to imagine that

do u perhaps have a pic where we can reference to?
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post Feb 10 2014, 01:26 PM

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post Feb 10 2014, 01:27 PM

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QUOTE(yap800 @ Feb 10 2014, 01:19 PM)
I'm having some argument with my gf. Im not too sure how it is but i dont really agree with my gf point of view.

She wears a bra that doesnt fully cover her nipple. The part didnt cover is the outer circular part is contanlt outside the bra.

IS that right? She wears some low cut attire sometimes. It is not too good if people see that.
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1st of all, males are not allowed to open thread in Girls Club.

Back to ur queries, if she ok with showing that and you are not.
The only resolution is to find another girl that doesnt do that. Or u might want to ask her mom to advise her.

Btw, isnt that is what attracted you to buaya her? whistling.gif
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post Feb 10 2014, 01:28 PM

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Hard to imagine... got photo? :-D
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post Feb 10 2014, 01:53 PM

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post Feb 10 2014, 01:55 PM

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QUOTE(yap800 @ Feb 10 2014, 02:19 PM)
I'm having some argument with my gf. Im not too sure how it is but i dont really agree with my gf point of view.

She wears a bra that doesnt fully cover her nipple. The part didnt cover is the outer circular part is contanlt outside the bra.

IS that right? She wears some low cut attire sometimes. It is not too good if people see that.
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i dunno what u talking about, can u show some pics ? brows.gif
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post Feb 10 2014, 02:23 PM

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As LoveMeNot stated, guys are not suppose to open thread here.

I don't think you should have a say in how she dresses.
Maybe her bra isn't fitted correctly? Some girls don't like wearing full cup bras either.

Anyway, nipples are nipples la. Not like you guys don't have them.
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post Feb 10 2014, 05:28 PM

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Is this your gf?-> https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3106292

Read your thread and realized I've read about this problem before... from a girl's perspective.. so just wondering..

This post has been edited by heidityj: Feb 10 2014, 05:29 PM
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post Feb 10 2014, 06:07 PM

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QUOTE(nate_nightroad @ Feb 10 2014, 01:21 PM)
its pretty hard for us to imagine that

do u perhaps have a pic where we can reference to?
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I dont have the pic.
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post Feb 10 2014, 06:09 PM

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QUOTE(heidityj @ Feb 10 2014, 05:28 PM)
Is this your gf?-> https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3106292

Read your thread and realized I've read about this problem before... from a girl's perspective.. so just wondering..
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She isn't my gf. My gf is not in lyn btw.

After going through the link, i think they have a similar problem. But my gf doesnt think it is a problem.
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post Feb 10 2014, 06:10 PM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Feb 10 2014, 01:27 PM)
1st of all, males are not allowed to open thread in Girls Club.

Back to ur queries, if she ok with showing that and you are not.
The only resolution is to find another girl that doesnt do that. Or u might want to ask her mom to advise her.

Btw, isnt that is what attracted you to buaya her?  whistling.gif
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Why it is related to the reason i buaya her?
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post Feb 10 2014, 06:11 PM

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post Feb 10 2014, 06:13 PM

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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Feb 10 2014, 02:23 PM)
As LoveMeNot stated, guys are not suppose to open thread here.

I don't think you should have a say in how she dresses.
Maybe her bra isn't fitted correctly? Some girls don't like wearing full cup bras either.

Anyway, nipples are nipples la. Not like you guys don't have them.
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Sorry for opening a thread here as a guy. Im just looking for advice.

I have no idea about how she wears a bra. I just feel that it is not suppose the correct way and i dont think she wears a full cup.


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post Feb 10 2014, 06:15 PM

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There is no right nor wrong, you can choose to leave her if you think she does not meet your requirements ! Ever you wondered she could be an exhibitionist ? and just loves the attention ?
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post Feb 10 2014, 06:22 PM

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its ok for her to wear halfcup bras, but ask her to wear hijab, the long one.

thanks
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post Feb 10 2014, 06:33 PM

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maybe she seeking some attention hmm.gif I know some gals would do that brows.gif
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QUOTE(yap800 @ Feb 10 2014, 06:13 PM)
Sorry for opening a thread here as a guy. Im just looking for advice.

I have no idea about how she wears a bra. I just feel that it is not suppose the correct way and i dont think she wears a full cup.
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If she doesn't think it's a problem, then you can't say or do anything. It's her life, her choice. I don't see that as a problem either.

Could be ill-fitting of the bra, could be her body is just made that way. There's no right or wrong. If you really wanna help, go ask those bra sales ladies for their advice.

I hate wearing full cups as well. Those french cup demi-cup bras are the best.
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post Feb 10 2014, 09:43 PM

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It's her choice on what to wear. If she don't see any problem why not.
I also hate wearing full cup bra smile.gif
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post Feb 10 2014, 11:01 PM

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QUOTE(placenta @ Feb 10 2014, 06:22 PM)
its ok for her to wear halfcup bras, but ask her to wear hijab, the long one.

thanks
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Don't try to act smart, if you dont know just ask. She is a chinese.
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post Feb 10 2014, 11:02 PM

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QUOTE(yap800 @ Feb 10 2014, 11:01 PM)
Don't try to act smart, if you dont know just ask. She is a chinese.
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dont come with a stupid statement. felixia yeap is chinese as well.
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post Feb 10 2014, 11:05 PM

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QUOTE(placenta @ Feb 10 2014, 11:02 PM)
dont come with a stupid statement. felixia yeap is chinese as well.
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Please la, don't tell me those thing that i didn't want to know.

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post Feb 10 2014, 11:10 PM

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QUOTE(yap800 @ Feb 10 2014, 11:05 PM)
Please la, don't tell me those thing that i didn't want to know.
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if youre not happy with what shes doing, try to talk to her like you mean it. like you REALLY mean it.

once my gf dyed her hair, i told her directly in a way that she can accpt it.

guess what, nvr dyed her hair ever since.

communication dude.
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post Feb 10 2014, 11:13 PM

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QUOTE(placenta @ Feb 10 2014, 11:10 PM)
if youre not happy with what shes doing, try to talk to her like you mean it. like you REALLY mean it.

once my gf dyed her hair, i told her directly in a way that she can accpt it.

guess what, nvr dyed her hair ever since.

communication dude.
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Thank you. This this what you are supposed to write.

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post Feb 11 2014, 11:13 AM

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I wonder why all your posts are in topics related to bra? You really got gf or not? Or you posting cool story?

QUOTE(yap800 @ Apr 18 2011, 02:19 PM)
You try to stand beside a mirror n check out yourself if you can see your own nipple?

I bet you can because i had this kinda view before too unintentionally. Actually the gapping you have is kinda big, 3 fingers, and you are wearing low cut. Guys just need to turn their heads down to your chest and they can see your nipple easily. Even though they have no intention to see, but honestly which guy dont see if you are giving them effortless chance. Moreover the guy is standing so close to you and i believe inside LRT the brightness is good enough for him to check out your nipple comfortably. drool.gif

I think he stalked you because he catches your nipple view from the beginning. Plenty of girl out there showing their cleavage and didnt get stalked because their bra is filled and nipple didn't expose. Flesh and bra won't attract those perv.

Next time release your pony tail if you found ppl check you out. You are right your pony indirectly help him a lot.

or you can put some thick padding and make sure your nipple cannot be seen from any angle then u can wear low cut attire safely.

How long you have been going out in this attire? Not nobody care what u are wearing i guess, maybe you didn't realize them.
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QUOTE(yap800 @ Apr 18 2011, 12:49 PM)
It works seriously if u wear a bigger cup in those stiff padded bra. Just imagine u put 2 bowls on your chest and the effect is simply different...lol. My gf used to wear bigger cup, I can even put an small egg inside the cup if she doesn't fill with any padding.

yeah, it has disadvantage when u wear the attire is low cut and loose fitting especially at chest part because the bigger cup make your attire couldnt skin tight to the chest eventually nipple can be seen easily from side.
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QUOTE(yap800 @ Jan 9 2012, 07:51 PM)
Too small nothing to show n not sexy but if bra got gap then different story tongue.gif
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post Feb 11 2014, 03:04 PM

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Seems like a troll to me...

Assuming the concern in genuine, talk to her and let her know how you feel. If she still stands on her ground, either you stick with her (make adjustments/expectations) or move on.

Like some female forumers have mentioned, full cup bras are uncomfortable. This is also some info my female friends share with me too...

 

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