you're assuming that peopl take a long time to finish a book. let's say a fella reads 3 books (that he takes just 1 day to finish them all) and spends the other 6 days to do other activities such as hiking, running, socialising etc. would he be out of your parameters?

just saying that setting a kinda arbitrary rule (based on - as your story goes - only one positive observation) may not be wise

Choii.. I thought after reading all there first few paragraphs you're moral of the story after reading those papers on your fathers desk, you'd become interested in becoming an engineer or something. Ini tengah sibuk letak criteria cari batang jodoh.

Books are great learning tools. Text that are organised and conceptualized to teach, to impart greater knowledge, are easy and at the same time hard to come by. However with the amount of distractions in current society, it is harder and harder to come by habitual readers that actually remembers what they read months ago, however there are some in /k.

From what I understood, you are interested in people who seek out knowledge. Does not stick to you like moth to butter. Gives you freedom to explore. <sounds a bit like Vivi>
Instead of abstinence and post marital sex, you would not deter yourself from knowledge of intimacy.

Thanks. Your post makes me want to examine myself more, to understand why I am here at /k.

Then haven't you considered reviewing your requirements? Or your approach?

You might be throwing yourself at them way too much and they just see you as easy. Not judging you but you might be missing out on a lot of good men out there.

As you said, it is arbitrary

I arbitrarily approved eligibility of Emino some time last night

If something different comes along, say, a savant in video consumption that adheres to my idea of a thinking man, I don't mind arbitrarily changing the guidelines

But books should take precedence simply because of my life and job. What is the point if he can't accept the fact that I will inevitably spend more time curating than smooching with him?

you guys are overanalyzing the book requirement.

This is Kopitiam and most of us have PhD in psychology and psychiatry

as long as youre not bound to it, then its fine.

walao,30 page

successful kuda

You are mostly correct

Except the freedom part. Instead of exploring the wide wild world I'll be with books for most part of my life. If he can't accept that, then it's impossible to be together

talk so much but no drills

ada the book thief tak? nk beli

Picture speaks a thouzen words. Sure can handle or not?

So big liao still want people spoon feed

Just look through the 30 pages and you'll find people trading my photos in private message

wow...

Ts how about reading manga or comic? my concentration face during reading manga iz so cool n some say better than brad pit

I have extreme prejudice against anyone named Jason, real or nicked

2 books a wweek?!

hell, if lad likes thick and hard to read books then gg liao

Someone interested liao

He probably fap to thick books more than women