That is psychology , have a good package surely attract more people to purchase that particular product. That is why never judge a product by its packages.

Miss NXJ, i admire your determination on your stands of your requirement for your life-long partner. However, I find it rather peculiar that you has fixed a specific volume of books that are require to be read in your requirement. I has read every pages of this thread and I admits that it was rather entertaining, perhaps, i forgot a few clues that you has previously answered. I want to know why you limit the amount of volume that a person shall read to be 2 and not more or less?

Which mean, if a person who are passionate in reading , he may read exactly 2 books or more than 2 books in a week or in a predefined time frame. So, I believe you shall actually disregard to the volume that a person read per week, perhaps, make it as a minimum requirement instead of limiting the volume that ones shall read and not more.

You are correct, in the sense that what I care really isn't the exact volume of book a man should read. It has more to do with the amount of time he spend reading versus doing something else.

The rule was drafted base on personal experience. During extreme seasons I can go through five 300 pages novels a week, almost a book a day. Factoring the pacing and length of book, I deduced the minimum a person should be able to read a week would be, two 300 pages novels a week.

Suppose he reads just magazines of, say, 50 pages or less. If he has time for more than 2 of said magazines a week, he is most likely not doing anything else. Such as having a job. The same can be said if the reading material is comic books, and especially true if it's 300 pages novels. Such men are more likely to not want a date.

As for those who read less than 2 books a week... well, if you are not that into reading, what are the chances you won't freak out when you see the amount of books I read and own?

Besides that, you said Enimo has most probably read more books than TheEvilMan. However, by logic, if Enimo has been doing a lot of reading, there are quite some possibilities that the total volume of books that he has read, be it magazines, journals, books related to his fields and so on will be exceeding the 2 books per week requirement. Logically, he will has failed to meet your requirement since you stated that only 2 books and not more or less. Yet, you said that you do love to date him out. In other word, you are not following the own requirements that you has set it yourself. You got great determination which is a good thing, but you seem to be lack of realistic.

You also mentioned that you got no motives in finding a man in here to be your partner, then i am wondering what is the motive that you open this thread? IF you do not have the motive to find a man here, why you bother to list out your requirements by opening this threads and get bombarded by a tons of /k/tard here? It is like you purposely open this thread and give chances to give you bad remarks or even insults on you, this is where I find that there simply no logic behind this thread.

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopi...post&p=65797811

The link above is why I started this thread. Emino is a good looking man with decent reading habit. He demonstrated while he has something serious to work on in this life, he is capable of finding time for cosplay and reading 300 pages novels. This is a decent quality man women should be actively chasing after.

Besides that, a person who read 2 books may also be aggressive, arrogant and other bad behaviours as well. Normally I find it funny that girls tend to be more choosy than guys without aware that there are shelf-life on their beauties. You read a lot of books, you are surely aware that men are generally visual animal, which mean that we emphasize on the appearance. However of course there are some men who do not have that high expectation on the beauties of a specific girl and they can be a good bf/husband as well , by caring and loving you and be responsible in taking care of you, supporting you and so on. But then you will not even consider him to be your partner since you want a person who read 2 books per week. With this, what I mean is you may be throwing away hell a lot of opportunity to be together with a good and caring person. In the end, where your beauties starting to expire, you yourself becoming more and more desperate and ended up be together with a man who may or may not read 2 books per week but didn't treat/ care you as good as those guys who previously considering you.

The 2 books a week is just a quick-select guideline. It's like walking into a supermarket with the mindset that you will not buy anything but the cereals you craved. I identified my cereal and I'm looking for it.

Suppose I found it but it was badly damaged. Do I still buy it or do I walk away? What is the point of the rule if I'm going to end up blindly forcing chemistries to work, which often will result in explosions?

To make it worst, you said that nobody has ever initiate themselves on you, often you are the 1 who make the 1st move, so this means that your market is already not that great yet you still can think of setting up some unrealistic requirements. Like I said in other thread before, I has talks to a lot of girls in my life and sometimes i find that they are rather funny, some of them certainly do not go by logic, or i simply failed to brain the logic behind their motives or actions.

Lastly, I got no intention to offend you, i am merely pointing out what I am thinking straightforwardly. Since Enimo has been requesting your facebook, i believe your mission shall be accomplished by now.

If the goal is to get laid, I'll bin the rules and put on some mini-miniskirt and visit me some Zouk. But, no. The goal here is to find the man I want. The taste I like. Just because I'm not a super pretty model with huge busts, doesn't mean I must settle for anything less than I desire. I am aware that chances of me getting what I want is very slim, but I'll most likely end up slapping myself every night when I settle for a bad deal.

Besides, I'm great being alone. Occasionally friends do call for social stuff, and I got the books and wine. Learn to love loneliness, and companionship becomes a choice, not a must. The real lonely people are those who can't live without people surrounding them constantly.

You are one of the more reasonable person to respond to this thread. I thank you for the effort, and hopefully more of you will miraculously surface in this forum.

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopi...post&p=65797811

The link above is why I started this thread

This is not an attempt to look for a man from this forum

Merely an attempt to explain the vague guideline

If you can control yourself to consume just two of said magazines consistently each week

Then you are a man with some degree of discipline

Discipline is somewhat sexy too I guess

As mentioned, it is an arbitrary way to determine if a guy is worth dating

If he reads more than two books a week, he probably love whatever he's reading more than dating

If he reads less than two books a week, he probably don't have enough attention span to finish a more-than-a-day project or activity

Books come in different size and length

Ideally he should be busy with his work, yet interested in reading enough to read two books a week

But not free enough to read more than that presumably due to other priorities

Such as a job

I also vaguely consider magazines as books since they generally have coherent theme, opening, and closures

the guideline is as vague as the requirement
there is no reason to discipline in the exact quantity of book they read, information should be on the flow
to conclude attention span by the right quantity of books they read is not even practical when life doesn't happen in a predictable way, unless you can provide studies to support it

this is more like a confession of a bookworm's fetish

After all the 27 pages still no drillz? Son, I'm disappointed with u...

Strangely I find it as valid as men wanting women with bodacious racks

It got to 27 pages precisely because people are trading my photos in private messages

Also there's a photo of my leg somewhere in this thread

wanting and being practical is different lulz

I read kopitiam thread everyday...

Practically the same, the way I see it

It is not practical to keep dating men I know will end up hating or feeling indifferent about reading or my job

Simple: trial and error. All my relationships began with identifying if the boy/man has “that look”. If he has it and the chemistry is balanced, I always initiate the pursuing. Through a series of boys/men, I identified what variable I preferred most in men – the amount of books he read.

Boys/men I dated who read more than two books a week (includes magazines and book of varying genre) generally lack passion in other things, like beaching. Those who read less are incapable of projects or tasks requiring more than a day of attention.

To date, only one man I dated read two books a week. He was the perfect one. The right amount of attention and opinion. The cool attitude towards life. The relationship ended because I was the third wheel and I didn’t want to ruin his life. He agreed it was regrettable but the right thing to do.

not sure if you are dating with jerks or normal men, the concept of mutual understanding have nothing to do with men reading two books a week, they probably have something that are indifferent with you too

That is just her own theory that a man reading exactly 2 books per week is the perfect guy. She dont seem like a stupid. So just assumed she is trolling. Now she said just early twenties. 10 years later will have different thinking.

Because in your tiny brain the assumption is all woman wants sex above all else and can't live without getting married by 30

You probably can't even finish reading a restaurant menu without feeling headache

Haha so now you bragging urself about how much you can read. No people will feel any proud of you being a successful bookworm. If you really based on you exact ignorant theory of reading no more or less of 2 books per week to find a partner, then wait until i can listed my company in the stock exchange also you havent able to find one.

Btw, i can conclude you brain really have big problem. I used 30 years old just an example. I didnt think anything about sex or woman cant live without getting married. Your brain is indeed problematic.