QUOTE(k!nex @ Jan 14 2014, 08:58 PM)
TS ,I want to ask. How do you know the average of Kopitiam's average monthly salary since you mentioned that you earn one fifth of it ? Besides that, how certain are you that the value is correct ?
Let me analyse a little bit of your requirements:
1. Reading 2 books a week is possible if only at weekends. That means not much time for leisure like watching movies , or going to the beach and outdoor activities. So, homely but boring kind of guys or kind of nerdy type is your cup of tea ?
2. Most guys around 20+ ~ 30 years of age are busy working on weekdays including overtime or part time business to buy car and house before getting married. So not much time left for reading.
3. You are a librarian and I guess you need to work according to shifts ? I myself work in a private university too albeit not a librarian myself, and at my workplace, librarians work on Saturdays and Sundays ( half day for Sundays) .At my place during exam month, the library closes at 11pm. So you have time for dating ?
Conclusion is based on your requirements, how do you have time to date guys ?
Just my 2cents of thoughts ...
Exactly why the two books requirement
It is very alarming if a guy has all the time for you
It usually means he has nothing else in life, such as a job
He will be busy enough with his work, and interested in reading enough to keep up his reading joneses with books/magazines
But not enough time to read more of it presumably due to other priorities in life
Such as a job
And I will be having more or less the same life
There will be time for seeing each other, movies, shopping, and reading
Just not 20 hours a week of it